ohiobohio518
Don Juan
I'm just curious what you guys think about this sort of flake tag we seem to be having. Each bullet point is a separate hang out attempt. They are separate days, days apart. This is a college setting.
1. I ask her to hang out at 9PM and she complies. I say that I'll call her around 9PM. I call around 9PM, she doesn't pick up her phone. I don't leave a message, thinking she'll see my missed call and call me back if she wanted to hang out with me. I run into her around 1130PM and she goes "Why didn't you call me???" and I tell her that I did but she didn't pick up the phone. She goes "Well, leave a voicemail next time because sometimes my phone acts funny and it doesn't think you called when I don't have good reception." She then invites me over to her apartment to hang out around midnight, but I tell her that I can't (I really couldn't). I tell her that I'll see her tomorrow in class.
2. I oversleep the next morning and end up skipping the class, failing to turn in my assignment and not fulfilling the promise I made her that we'll compare answers before turning our assignment in. Sad.
3. I ask her to hang out around 9PM again and she complies. I say that I'll call her around 9PM. I completely fvck up and don't call her until 9:40, at which time I ask if I can hang out with her at 11PM (because I legitimately can't until then). She says she has to wake up at 5AM and says that if she's still up she will hang out with me, and says that if she doesn't answer the phone she is sleeping. I take this kind of as a "I don't want to say no right now so I'll just let my voicemail do the talking when the time comes." I call her around 11 but of course she doesn't answer.
4. I ask her to do homework together. She says she can after 830PM. Around 6PM I get a text saying "I can't meet tonight. Sorry! Can we do it tomorrow?" I play this off nicely by saying "Good, I have a midterm to study for anyway. Can't do tomorrow but how about Sat?" She says "Sure." I text her immediately afterwards asking "Wait actually, what time on Sat?" and she doesn't respond.
Did I flake on her too much...? It was completely unintentional and I feel like I ruined my chances. And it feels like she's flaking on me intentionally to get back at me. I really like this girl.
1. I ask her to hang out at 9PM and she complies. I say that I'll call her around 9PM. I call around 9PM, she doesn't pick up her phone. I don't leave a message, thinking she'll see my missed call and call me back if she wanted to hang out with me. I run into her around 1130PM and she goes "Why didn't you call me???" and I tell her that I did but she didn't pick up the phone. She goes "Well, leave a voicemail next time because sometimes my phone acts funny and it doesn't think you called when I don't have good reception." She then invites me over to her apartment to hang out around midnight, but I tell her that I can't (I really couldn't). I tell her that I'll see her tomorrow in class.
2. I oversleep the next morning and end up skipping the class, failing to turn in my assignment and not fulfilling the promise I made her that we'll compare answers before turning our assignment in. Sad.
3. I ask her to hang out around 9PM again and she complies. I say that I'll call her around 9PM. I completely fvck up and don't call her until 9:40, at which time I ask if I can hang out with her at 11PM (because I legitimately can't until then). She says she has to wake up at 5AM and says that if she's still up she will hang out with me, and says that if she doesn't answer the phone she is sleeping. I take this kind of as a "I don't want to say no right now so I'll just let my voicemail do the talking when the time comes." I call her around 11 but of course she doesn't answer.
4. I ask her to do homework together. She says she can after 830PM. Around 6PM I get a text saying "I can't meet tonight. Sorry! Can we do it tomorrow?" I play this off nicely by saying "Good, I have a midterm to study for anyway. Can't do tomorrow but how about Sat?" She says "Sure." I text her immediately afterwards asking "Wait actually, what time on Sat?" and she doesn't respond.
Did I flake on her too much...? It was completely unintentional and I feel like I ruined my chances. And it feels like she's flaking on me intentionally to get back at me. I really like this girl.
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