"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Flake or no flake?

No Leaf Clover

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got this chicks number 2 weeks ago. called a couple days after and asked if she would be around this saturday. she said yeah. I called her now and she won't answer. maybe she isn't by her phone?

move on?
 

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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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window

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When you phoned her you need to set up a specific time and place you're going to meet her. If she baulks at this and sais call me later then she's out. She might say she can't make it in which case she has to come back with a good counter offer. Next time wait a bit longer to call...say 5 days.
 

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I'd call her 3-5 days later like window was saying...you have to have everything set up when you ask her out...also leave a voicemail so she knows theres a reason you called. He makes a great point of the counter offer if she's busy...because that is a definite possibility
 
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