"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Flake or legit? How to reply..

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Had a second date planned tonight. We hit it off on the first date, I ended up spending the night and fvcking her. She is on POF btw. She just texted me saying that her good friend has a daughter in the hospital, and he wants to grab some food and get out of there for a bit. Asked if we could reschedule or if the guy could join us later. I thought "no way" to some guy joining and breaking up the mood, but I asked about rescheduling and she can't until next Tues? Bit of a turn off... How should I respond, what should I do?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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She's on POF, that just makes her a flake by default.

Just stick to bars and clubs and SNLs. if and when a women flakes after ya **** her who cares!
 
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She offered to reschedule. She even went so far as to make the awkward offer of having this guy hang out with the two of you. I don't think you need to drop her just yet.

But hey, whatever you want.
 
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Yeah you don't have to drop her but I wouldn't go out of my way. Make sure you **** her the first night, do a good amount of kino properly. After that, let her flake all she wants.
 
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I want to help, but I dont know what SNL and POF mean.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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POL= plentyoffish, a "dating" site with loads of women who use the site to boost their egos, nothing more.

SNL = same night lay, the only thing a majority of the single female population is good for.
 
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