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Don Juan
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Additionally maybe don't even grind with girls in clubs, as it could be like trying too hard but not getting hard. I had that happen once when unexpectedly an attractive girl with an amazing butt took my hand and led me for a few seconds and then started grinding on me and I didn't get it up because I was completely mentally turned off by a woman trying to lead me when I'm a masculine man who leads feminine women. I've also been able to just look at a woman seductively while talking with her with no physical touching been able to get it up. Part of getting turned on is mental. Personally I could watch porn for hours a day, but I decide not to. Also, even going to a porn site and watching one clip can then easily turn into watching a few and that can take up a lot of time during the day that could be better spent doing more effective actions such as, approaching and inviting more real women that at least has the possibility of meeting a few women for real s*x. A porn clip is not a potential prospect who can say yes, however being in front of a real woman is a prospect who can say yes to s*x. I now apply this to every online site (even Game blogs), not just porn, so as to not get caught up with wasting too much time such as, just watching a lot of porn, instead of going out and giving real women (and myself) the opportunity to have real s*xual experiences. Now I rarely watch any porn mostly because that time is better used to meet real women. Usually, it's best to keep the interaction non-verbal, but in this case if you actually want a "size queen" (and your main criteria is screening for the women who crave only big tools) then you can screen for them by looking for the women who are very stuck-up/b*tchy (but you also have to be able to handle this personality type, as I have so much experience with it that I now don't even call women b*tches nor do I care because I'm able to handle a variety of women very well) because super-horny women can start out this way before they are being f*cked good, and also (that will increase some rejections) possibly subtly hint at it by saying something such as, "Do you like big things?" (while maybe putting your hand on your upper thigh without looking there) and see if she flirts that she does. Also, exercising for at least 2 months can begin to increase libido, getting enough sleep, decreasing overall stress, being relaxed around women, and when near women be in the present moment/be calm/breathe slow quietly and deeply/clear your mind and focus on the woman in front of you that you are interacting with as you look into her eyes and even look at her lips and visualize kissing her almost feeling the real physical sensations and look into her eyes again and invite her to get together. There sounds like there is also some overall anxiety, so we shouldn't mentally worry about trying to dance outstanding, so if there is stress in that environment then go to a variety of venues.