"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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fixing age . . .

sfalexi

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Is there a way this can be coded so that the age is automatically calculated from our DOB? Just that it doesn't fix itself unles you go in there and do it. I just changed my age to the correct one, but it could cause confusion if we're giving advice to someone whose age says "20" but they are "21" (meaning now we can include bars) or something like that.

Alexi
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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diablo

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Some forums do, I don't know about this type of software. It'd be a useful function, though... however, it's really not that difficult to go into your profile and change a number once a year.

By the way, 21 is the legal drinking age in the US... not the age you have to be to get into most bars.
 

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True (about legal drinking age in US), but I just though it'd be useful. And yes it doesn't take much to change it once a year, but I forgot about mine and just changed it yesterday (six months after my birthday). It's just a matter of having it change automatically versus depending on the poster to remember to change it.

Alexi
 

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Originally posted by diablo
By the way, 21 is the legal drinking age in the US... not the age you have to be to get into most bars.
Depending on where you live, a lot of places card everyone and throw the younguns out at around 9:00 PM or so. That way waitstaff doesn't have to f*ck around with worry about underaged drinking.
 

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By the way, 21 is the legal drinking age in the US... not the age you have to be to get into most bars.
but you can GET AWAY WITH drinking at 14. my 2 c.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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This is not about underage drinking. This topic is about the vBulletin software and what it can do about recording/calculating age.

I think that this program can do that but Admin may have left that field open for manual entry. Good suggestion.
 
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