“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Fixing a girl’s pair bonding

mrgoodstuff

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This definitely speaks to me.

But at the same time it feels bad to be with something "easy" when one could have had the hotter chick if... one was better.

I'd then rather work on myself, such that one is in the right mindset. I don't know if it's about something more than confidence and self image.
You don't have to be "better" to have a "hotter" chick, she just has to like you. And "hotter" doesn't means she's "better".
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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OP here.

That high body count = pair bonding issues seems to be all over the manosphere. Personally I cannot confirm it, I’ve been with fine women that have had active sex lives. It might be this is just men being insecure or distasteful of experienced women (I would count me as one of them). But I do agree the skanky, hardened pro bar hopper is unattractive and I can surely appreciate the reindeer.

Notice I didn’t say high body count, I said pair bonding. So, these problem one can have for other reasons than high body count, I think.

I agree “fixing” people, particularly if she’s damaged by high body count, is pretty hopeless, but it isn’t that far. It’s just a young (I think 21) musician with a lot of emotions and attitude. A woman. She’s also a young HB, so she needs to learn to fend things off left and right, while trying to live her own life.

The real problem here is that I am not yet man enough for handling her, I fold/freeze at her sh1t tests. I think the solution for her is to have a solid, stable, inert man that extinguishes her turbulence. The one who is that gets her, kind of. Seen it happen before. Maybe I am it next time we meet.

I think I have a tad of the same problems myself, and that can be an explanation to the dysfunctionality here and our/mine attraction. Too much game, too many failed oneitis, too much tango.
 
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