"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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FIVE MISTAKES Guys Make on Valentine's Day - GOOD READ!

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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To save everyone the trouble and to avoid the blogspam:



1. Ruining the season for others. Just because you're not a fan of the holiday does not mean you have the right to be a "Stick in the mud" for others. This includes angry Anti-Valentine's Day "Tweets" on Twitter! This is especially true for your friends. If your girlfriend has a man, do not make her feel guilty about the holiday. If she is truly your friend, let her be happy with her man and find another way to enjoy the day.


2. Moping around. To my single ladies- I know it's probably not easy to keep a smile, with constant reminders of "how single you are" being shoved into your face. Yet, the worst thing you can do is sit around the house and "mope". Realize there are hundreds of thousands of single women in the Tri-State area alone. Spend this day with friends at the movies, the museum, or even at a singles' party. There are plenty of singles' events during this time of year.


3. "Forcing" Love. It is very easy to get caught in the hype of Valentine's Day by spending the month of February trying to "lock a man down." While you should remain receptive to qualified men, it is another thing entirely to project your desires onto an undeserving man. Don't let the pressure of finding love lead you down the road of chasing mediocre and sub-par men. It is far better to be a woman with no man than a woman with a "half-assed" man.


4. Expecting the world (and more) from your significant other. Women with "Significant Others" are not off the hook either. It is almost impossible not to compare your V-Day gift from your man to the next woman's gift. However, in these recessionary times, a lot of guys have to scale back a bit on the financial side. That means you should scale back on your expectations from a monetary standpoint. This year, pay more attention to the thought put into your Valentine's Day gift, rather than the price tag.


5. Thinking you don't owe him anything. It is no secret that women typically reap a majority of the benefits associated with Valentine's Day. However, do not forget to show your man some appreciation...or another woman will! This could be as simple as taking him out to eat, or better yet, a surprise massage using a wooden massager from the Bath and Body store. In fact, anything having to do with Food, Sex or Serenity are generally good gifts for your mate.
 
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Jon55 said:
To save everyone the trouble and to avoid the blogspam:



1. Ruining the season for others. Just because you're not a fan of the holiday does not mean you have the right to be a "Stick in the mud" for others. This includes angry Anti-Valentine's Day "Tweets" on Twitter! This is especially true for your friends. If your girlfriend has a man, do not make her feel guilty about the holiday. If she is truly your friend, let her be happy with her man and find another way to enjoy the day.


2. Moping around. To my single ladies- I know it's probably not easy to keep a smile, with constant reminders of "how single you are" being shoved into your face. Yet, the worst thing you can do is sit around the house and "mope". Realize there are hundreds of thousands of single women in the Tri-State area alone. Spend this day with friends at the movies, the museum, or even at a singles' party. There are plenty of singles' events during this time of year.


3. "Forcing" Love. It is very easy to get caught in the hype of Valentine's Day by spending the month of February trying to "lock a man down." While you should remain receptive to qualified men, it is another thing entirely to project your desires onto an undeserving man. Don't let the pressure of finding love lead you down the road of chasing mediocre and sub-par men. It is far better to be a woman with no man than a woman with a "half-assed" man.


4. Expecting the world (and more) from your significant other. Women with "Significant Others" are not off the hook either. It is almost impossible not to compare your V-Day gift from your man to the next woman's gift. However, in these recessionary times, a lot of guys have to scale back a bit on the financial side. That means you should scale back on your expectations from a monetary standpoint. This year, pay more attention to the thought put into your Valentine's Day gift, rather than the price tag.


5. Thinking you don't owe him anything. It is no secret that women typically reap a majority of the benefits associated with Valentine's Day. However, do not forget to show your man some appreciation...or another woman will! This could be as simple as taking him out to eat, or better yet, a surprise massage using a wooden massager from the Bath and Body store. In fact, anything having to do with Food, Sex or Serenity are generally good gifts for your mate.
Thanks but you posted the wrong blog. That's the 5 Mistakes WOMEN make. :rolleyes:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Jon55 said:
To save everyone the trouble and to avoid the blogspam:



1. Ruining the season for others. Just because you're not a fan of the holiday does not mean you have the right to be a "Stick in the mud" for others. This includes angry Anti-Valentine's Day "Tweets" on Twitter! This is especially true for your friends. If your girlfriend has a man, do not make her feel guilty about the holiday. If she is truly your friend, let her be happy with her man and find another way to enjoy the day.


2. Moping around. To my single ladies- I know it's probably not easy to keep a smile, with constant reminders of "how single you are" being shoved into your face. Yet, the worst thing you can do is sit around the house and "mope". Realize there are hundreds of thousands of single women in the Tri-State area alone. Spend this day with friends at the movies, the museum, or even at a singles' party. There are plenty of singles' events during this time of year.


3. "Forcing" Love. It is very easy to get caught in the hype of Valentine's Day by spending the month of February trying to "lock a man down." While you should remain receptive to qualified men, it is another thing entirely to project your desires onto an undeserving man. Don't let the pressure of finding love lead you down the road of chasing mediocre and sub-par men. It is far better to be a woman with no man than a woman with a "half-assed" man.


4. Expecting the world (and more) from your significant other. Women with "Significant Others" are not off the hook either. It is almost impossible not to compare your V-Day gift from your man to the next woman's gift. However, in these recessionary times, a lot of guys have to scale back a bit on the financial side. That means you should scale back on your expectations from a monetary standpoint. This year, pay more attention to the thought put into your Valentine's Day gift, rather than the price tag.


5. Thinking you don't owe him anything. It is no secret that women typically reap a majority of the benefits associated with Valentine's Day. However, do not forget to show your man some appreciation...or another woman will! This could be as simple as taking him out to eat, or better yet, a surprise massage using a wooden massager from the Bath and Body store. In fact, anything having to do with Food, Sex or Serenity are generally good gifts for your mate.
This is the errors that women make. Valentine's day ain't for another 362 days now!
 
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