"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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FIVE MISTAKES Guys Make on Valentine's Day - GOOD READ!

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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To save everyone the trouble and to avoid the blogspam:



1. Ruining the season for others. Just because you're not a fan of the holiday does not mean you have the right to be a "Stick in the mud" for others. This includes angry Anti-Valentine's Day "Tweets" on Twitter! This is especially true for your friends. If your girlfriend has a man, do not make her feel guilty about the holiday. If she is truly your friend, let her be happy with her man and find another way to enjoy the day.


2. Moping around. To my single ladies- I know it's probably not easy to keep a smile, with constant reminders of "how single you are" being shoved into your face. Yet, the worst thing you can do is sit around the house and "mope". Realize there are hundreds of thousands of single women in the Tri-State area alone. Spend this day with friends at the movies, the museum, or even at a singles' party. There are plenty of singles' events during this time of year.


3. "Forcing" Love. It is very easy to get caught in the hype of Valentine's Day by spending the month of February trying to "lock a man down." While you should remain receptive to qualified men, it is another thing entirely to project your desires onto an undeserving man. Don't let the pressure of finding love lead you down the road of chasing mediocre and sub-par men. It is far better to be a woman with no man than a woman with a "half-assed" man.


4. Expecting the world (and more) from your significant other. Women with "Significant Others" are not off the hook either. It is almost impossible not to compare your V-Day gift from your man to the next woman's gift. However, in these recessionary times, a lot of guys have to scale back a bit on the financial side. That means you should scale back on your expectations from a monetary standpoint. This year, pay more attention to the thought put into your Valentine's Day gift, rather than the price tag.


5. Thinking you don't owe him anything. It is no secret that women typically reap a majority of the benefits associated with Valentine's Day. However, do not forget to show your man some appreciation...or another woman will! This could be as simple as taking him out to eat, or better yet, a surprise massage using a wooden massager from the Bath and Body store. In fact, anything having to do with Food, Sex or Serenity are generally good gifts for your mate.
 
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Jon55 said:
To save everyone the trouble and to avoid the blogspam:



1. Ruining the season for others. Just because you're not a fan of the holiday does not mean you have the right to be a "Stick in the mud" for others. This includes angry Anti-Valentine's Day "Tweets" on Twitter! This is especially true for your friends. If your girlfriend has a man, do not make her feel guilty about the holiday. If she is truly your friend, let her be happy with her man and find another way to enjoy the day.


2. Moping around. To my single ladies- I know it's probably not easy to keep a smile, with constant reminders of "how single you are" being shoved into your face. Yet, the worst thing you can do is sit around the house and "mope". Realize there are hundreds of thousands of single women in the Tri-State area alone. Spend this day with friends at the movies, the museum, or even at a singles' party. There are plenty of singles' events during this time of year.


3. "Forcing" Love. It is very easy to get caught in the hype of Valentine's Day by spending the month of February trying to "lock a man down." While you should remain receptive to qualified men, it is another thing entirely to project your desires onto an undeserving man. Don't let the pressure of finding love lead you down the road of chasing mediocre and sub-par men. It is far better to be a woman with no man than a woman with a "half-assed" man.


4. Expecting the world (and more) from your significant other. Women with "Significant Others" are not off the hook either. It is almost impossible not to compare your V-Day gift from your man to the next woman's gift. However, in these recessionary times, a lot of guys have to scale back a bit on the financial side. That means you should scale back on your expectations from a monetary standpoint. This year, pay more attention to the thought put into your Valentine's Day gift, rather than the price tag.


5. Thinking you don't owe him anything. It is no secret that women typically reap a majority of the benefits associated with Valentine's Day. However, do not forget to show your man some appreciation...or another woman will! This could be as simple as taking him out to eat, or better yet, a surprise massage using a wooden massager from the Bath and Body store. In fact, anything having to do with Food, Sex or Serenity are generally good gifts for your mate.
Thanks but you posted the wrong blog. That's the 5 Mistakes WOMEN make. :rolleyes:
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Jon55 said:
To save everyone the trouble and to avoid the blogspam:



1. Ruining the season for others. Just because you're not a fan of the holiday does not mean you have the right to be a "Stick in the mud" for others. This includes angry Anti-Valentine's Day "Tweets" on Twitter! This is especially true for your friends. If your girlfriend has a man, do not make her feel guilty about the holiday. If she is truly your friend, let her be happy with her man and find another way to enjoy the day.


2. Moping around. To my single ladies- I know it's probably not easy to keep a smile, with constant reminders of "how single you are" being shoved into your face. Yet, the worst thing you can do is sit around the house and "mope". Realize there are hundreds of thousands of single women in the Tri-State area alone. Spend this day with friends at the movies, the museum, or even at a singles' party. There are plenty of singles' events during this time of year.


3. "Forcing" Love. It is very easy to get caught in the hype of Valentine's Day by spending the month of February trying to "lock a man down." While you should remain receptive to qualified men, it is another thing entirely to project your desires onto an undeserving man. Don't let the pressure of finding love lead you down the road of chasing mediocre and sub-par men. It is far better to be a woman with no man than a woman with a "half-assed" man.


4. Expecting the world (and more) from your significant other. Women with "Significant Others" are not off the hook either. It is almost impossible not to compare your V-Day gift from your man to the next woman's gift. However, in these recessionary times, a lot of guys have to scale back a bit on the financial side. That means you should scale back on your expectations from a monetary standpoint. This year, pay more attention to the thought put into your Valentine's Day gift, rather than the price tag.


5. Thinking you don't owe him anything. It is no secret that women typically reap a majority of the benefits associated with Valentine's Day. However, do not forget to show your man some appreciation...or another woman will! This could be as simple as taking him out to eat, or better yet, a surprise massage using a wooden massager from the Bath and Body store. In fact, anything having to do with Food, Sex or Serenity are generally good gifts for your mate.
This is the errors that women make. Valentine's day ain't for another 362 days now!
 
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