Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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banana republic went on sale because they are moving location, i was planning to get something, but started to bulk up a month ago...so i was afraid that it might not fit after, or that if i buy a bigger size it wont fit.

what should i do?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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it's not like you're going to blow up when you bulk. you'd be lucky to put on a pound of muscle in a single week.
 

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i'd get a 31 just to be on the safe side
 

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theory of knowledge said:
banana republic went on sale because they are moving location, i was planning to get something, but started to bulk up a month ago...so i was afraid that it might not fit after, or that if i buy a bigger size it wont fit.

what should i do?

I bought a few pairs of jeans. Then i started hardcore into squats. In about 2 months those jeans barely fit anymore because my quads grew a ton. Buy loose fit pants if you want to grow into them.

I wouldn't worry about shirts though unless you're going to buy things specifically to be tight right now.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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