Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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JT12

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Hi I'm JT12. I'm kind of a fitness person and work out about 3-4 times a week. I'm not in Olympic shape but in way better than most and I smoke ciggs regularly(trying to stop just got the gum) and drink occasionally. Personally I'm a fan of doing calisthenics instead of weights but I do own a weighted vest. Ok heres what you'll need somewhere to do pull ups like from a good ledge you can grip with gloves or one of those 20-30 dollar door pull up bars from a sporting goods store. Heres my routine with a small sliver of my diet which changes everyday.

Day 1: Pull ups of all varieties (Close handed ones, wide and medium range), Then do close handed push ups aka diamond push ups or do dips off a chair or in a good area to hold your whole body weight like the corner of a deck and then do planks. Do not go crazy if you can do 1 pull up or not even one do something called negatives. Which is when you jump over the bar and lower yourself down and then repeat. So do pull ups, diamond pushs or dips and then planks.

Day 2: Run a mile or more.

Day 3: Do squats and lunges to work your legs and do crunches or butterfly kicks.

Day 4: Do day one again.

You can go ahead and take a break on day five and restart the routine or just go for a light jog or a walk.


Now I mainly have a diet of steak, chicken, fish, pasta, oranges, apples, bananas, ramens and nut mixes and milk.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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First of all, if you smoke cigarettes regularly then you aren't in any position to talk about fitness.
 

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I bet I can do more of those above listed exercises than you can and run further and faster than you.
 

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I wouldn't hold that against him too much...there are guys I know that can run 10 to 12 miles and smoke cigs...still more than I've ever run.
 

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I am quitting though its been like two days. Its not going well, like I'm snapping at people lol
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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JT12 said:
I bet I can do more of those above listed exercises than you can and run further and faster than you.
I would be more than happy to take you up on that challenge.

Its just a shame youre mouthing off on the internet - where EVERYONE is a 6'4" cage fighter.:rock:
 

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Yup and just like everybody on this site gets *****.
 

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JT12 said:
Yup and just like everybody on this site gets *****.
if that were true, there would be no need for this site.
 

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Didn't mean to be an ass about that but he just came in and was like you can't give good fitness tips. I'm not the best in the world nor did I claim to be. Though I just like to talk about fitness and I'm in okay shape. I usually can do like ten pull ups in a set and thats without kicking my legs up and down or using my momentum, just slow and normal pull ups followed by dips or push ups. I can only run a mile or so and I usually do like 20 squats a set. I don't count sets I just go until failure and then I drink whey protein.
 
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