"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Fitness Gurus Help my want to gain 10 pds

nmartinez12443

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Hello, I am new to this site but I am very impressed with this messageboard as a whole. Maybe you can help me out.

I want to put on ten pounds of muscle.

this is my current body (not gay just trying to give you an idea):
I am 5'9 160 pds

http://www.hotornot.com/p/?select_pic=899166&state=photos&rand=2

Anyways currently I have a new workout plan and I want to know if this will work.

Monday-Wednesday-Friday
General Weights= Bench press, tricep ext, arm curls, overhead press, lat pull downs, pushups 3 by 10, minute abs X 2. Heavy weights low reps.

20 minute tempo runs. 2 minute steady jog 30 sec sprint.

Basketball for about 30-45 minutes.

Tuesday-Thursday
8 minute abs X 2, soccer for about 1 hour

Sat- rest

Sunday- 180 minutes of soccer (2 games)

Diet- Breakfest protein shake with ON whey protein, 1% milk

Lunch- Boneless skinless chicken breast X 2, yougurt, fruit cup, baked chips and salsa.

Dinner- Same as lunch, but a little less. Protein shake.

Will this work? Too much cardio? Any major flaws?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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check out the where to start thread and the simple starting diet. Also reconsider that 180min of soccer
 

nmartinez12443

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thanks for the advice.

I read those things suggested. However, I am getting around 400 grams of protein per day, which is nearly triple my body weight 160. I also drink a ton of water.

As far as soccer on Sunday, that is really the only low intensity work I will be doing.

Any other input?
 

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Oh one more thing to add i will begin the loading phase of Muscletechs Celltech Hardcore (creatine). I will use this for about 10 days, then switch to creatine monohydrate.
 

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post ur diet up
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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