"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Fitness Goals of 2007

BluEyes

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Straight up, what do you hope to achieve within the next 8760 hours?

My goals are to get back on the treadmill to shed the fat I gained in 2006. Did alot of freeweight work this year and put on 10lbs of lean muscle mass. Time to reveal all my hard work to the world.

Gotta start eating clean again as well.

Steps:

1. Cardio, and lots of it. 5 or 6 days a week.

2. Want to put on another 5 - 10lbs of muscle this year, and shed that last 10lbs of stubborn fat.

3. Will not touch coke/pepsi etc. in 2007. That's a hardline thing im sticking to. As little as possible of the chips and munchies. As much steak, tuna and eggs as I can manage, and fresh vegetables every day.

4. Start self-defense training, Muay Thai looks effective. If anybody has info on it, drop me a line :)

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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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MrS

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Get into good enough shape to go 6 hard rounds, and win my amateur boxing fights.
 

wolf116

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Put on 10kg's !!!!! no fat. Have my first fight,muay thai or mma (not much mma in Oz) and win!! Bench 120kg's. Do a backflip.
I will love my live if I can do this. Rock on 2007!!!
 

Ratisson

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lets see, it like to get my old body back and then some. I think going from 173 to 185 pounds from all muscle is a good goal.
 
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