First true approach for a total AFC.

[KiInCollege]

Yes, close any women that you can! Your great sales pitch means nothing if you don't get those numbers - the First Time around!

You will find that you do not always have the luxury of seeing them again. As well, a girl will lose respect for you if you don't act and make them impatient. It's OK to let them know that you're interested, right away. Women aren't dumb, they know why your talking to them!

Good luck on your path to DJism.

 

[david90]

Got my first rejection today. I am now truely a dj in training.

I saw the same shy asian girl that I talked to last week today and smiled at the her but she looked down and ignored me. We had good convo last week so I don't know what's wrong. Pior to seeing her this morning, I had alot of apprehension about what i'm gonna say and do when I see her again. BIG MISTAKE! All aprehension and plaining do is make u feel bad 100x if u get rejected. Lesson learned! I'm not gonna think much about my PUs in the future.

I felt really bad at first b/c its my first rejection but thinking about it, a dj just isn't a dj if he doesn't have any rejection handling ability.

 

[TurboLover]

Not bad, not bad at all. Sometimes you just need to go out and see how many rejections you can get. When you can get rejected and not feel bad or have any negative feelings about the girl that did it. Then you got it. This one brings you closer to a yes.

Keep them coming and this thread alive, and don't be surprise if later down the road your posting how the sex went with one of the many girls that your talking to. Because I want to read it.

 

[david90]

Is my opening line good?

I saw this girl working at the mall today and went in for the kill.

I walked up to her and said, "Hey, I saw you when I was walking by and I think you good really cute. My name is David, what's yours? <handshake>.

We had a short convo before I asked for #s and she told me she's not single. I bailed shortly after.

Is my opening line good or bad?

 

[wolfie]

It's very confident, but IMO unless you're very good looking and socially proofed it's not going to work, because it screams pickup and the chick is going to judge you based purely on what she's seen so far of you - that is, your looks and confidence. It also indicates you judged her purely on looks without having any real interest in her personality, and finally with the super hot babes, they get this kind of 'you're cute/hot/incredible approach all the time. Even if you do get the number it's likely she'll flake on you... in her memory you'll be 'that guy who hit on her at the mall', triggering all sorts of anti slut defenses in her brain.
Plus, are you going to do that to every girl you want to approach? Why not try and have a conversation and first and say some things that stand out in her mind.

 

[david90]

But I did start a convo. I'm not sure i'm I stood out in her mind though. What's a good way to stand out?