First Time Sex Omg Its Shocking

[StoneCold]

Guyz I am in ****ing shock!!!

I been dating this cute girl for somtime, we then met up to watch a movie throught the whole ovie we made out, it was amazing..

that same night i sneek her into my bedroom

i put music on we start to dance and make out....

i do an amazing job with foreplay great licking amazing kissing

Man i had no idea ***** taste so Bad...Its distGusting and I had hairs In my mouth, I mean im kissing and licking and biting and Im like Jesus, ive waited My whole life for This, Its Crap!!!!

I like the Girl she was wet when i took her panties off and i was likcing like mad, and fingering later on...

Now onto The worst Part.......

Man this is so awful,, I took of My boxers,, and my Penis had shrunk,,,, It was so small, it even shocked me,,, I saw a surprize look on her face,,,,

well at this point i was started to panik.... i got up I Farted,,, and started playing with it to see if it would wake up...But No it didnt....

I went to the toilet and Jerked Off, i thought it would be that because i havnt jerked off for nearly 3 weeks,,, i thought maybe if i do that it would work...

Man was i wrong,,,, I went back to fingering and giving her oral, Then I tell her make me horny, shes like why am i not making you horny,,, i said sumthing like dont know,,, well she started to give me oral and it was still so soft,,, but then it started to harden it was hard i was getting happy, but as she stoped, it went soft again..

At one point i became quite hard,, and couldnt get it in her,, it became soft quickly again....**** im so shocked

Now this is another bad part. i was trying to stick my soft thing inside her and i couldnt, it looked so stupid, she was getting frustrated,,, so i got back to licking and fingering so she became happy again...

Man i wasnt having fun at this point, but i kept smiley, jokey and everything,,,,

I just couldnt get it hard,, So i spent over 5 hours on foreplay she did it, alot,,

I remember when i use to play with it, it use to get hard easly.,, but even now i try to play with it, its soft as hell

i dont get strong erections anymore......

i think this day could **** up my chance with this girl, shes really nice and everything and great gf material, its a really bad shame

i wanted to continue foreplay, but she was tired and we slept naked side by side.....

It was my first Time,,,, and i think sex is over rated,,,, I watched porn and see all this great things happening,,,

I can imagine her telling her friends about this night,,, its a scary thought..

as we left to take the tube we were still kissing and she was still creating converstation but i dont know whats going to happen..

please any advice to why my thing dont get hard,,,, and my chances with this girl Now??

 

[Guoy Darko]

Dude, don't worry. You were probably nervous as hell, and when that happens your **** doesn't get hard. When you're thinking IT HAS TO BE HARD NOW OTHERWISE I OFFEND HER doesn't really help either.

And when you're now trying to jerk off with the feeling you have to prove something to yourself that will not help either.

When you're nervous or you don't feel right about something it's very hard getting it up.

 

[The Sperminator]

Actually very common for the first time. Don't worry about it man not a big deal. Happens to a lot of guys for the first time. Next time things will be better trust me. She seems cool about it too so you are probably alright.

 

[JuanMoore]

Before you try it again, have a few drinks if you're too nervous.

Depending of your level of resistance, two beers should do it.

Don't get drunk though. DON'T GET DRUNK.

 

[Randallpink83]

yeah dude it was just your nerves... or rather more like you "thinking" about too much and not letting go and just enjoying it.

exactly as stated above thats why you can't even really jerk off right now either, cause you're thinking too much "Ohh god whats wrong with my penis?!?!?"... thoughts and doubts can really effect you.

honestly it could get worse... cause now the second time around you're gonna be having anxiety hoping it doesn't happen again... You have to believe in yourself right now that it will be cool.. You will enjoy it and perform perfectly next time. and if not next time then third times a charm...

...does she know you're a virgin? honestly considering you are, it might be helpful to tell her the truth that you think you were nervous.. explain that she turned you on and you want her but it wouldn't perform because you're too nervous being the first time and all.. if shes on you're side then you wont feel so pressured and she will be more accepting.

Oh and by the way, ***** can taste good and bad, girls can have good days and bad days, and they will. So don't worry about that too much. Trust me, sex IS all its cracked up to be, good luck!

 

[HoneyHitter]

Dust yourself off and try again with another chick!!

Guyz I am in ****ing shock!!!

I been dating this cute girl for somtime, we then met up to watch a movie throught the whole ovie we made out, it was amazing..

that same night i sneek her into my bedroom

i put music on we start to dance and make out....

i do an amazing job with foreplay great licking amazing kissing

Man i had no idea ***** taste so Bad...Its distGusting and I had hairs In my mouth, I mean im kissing and licking and biting and Im like Jesus, ive waited My whole life for This, Its Crap!!!!

You remind me of someone I have known for a long time... lol
Props for sharing your "first time" with us dude.

i think this day could **** up my chance with this girl, shes really nice and everything and great gf material, its a really bad shame

You're right. I was in the same situation, but after messing around for a month I made the mistake of becoming the supplicative BF. Forget about this girl. Learn from this experience and try it with the next girl.

i wanted to continue foreplay, but she was tired and we slept naked side by side.....

You need more sexual experience and become comfortable with idea of having sex. It is has become a part of your reality. It ceases to be fantasy.

I can imagine her telling her friends about this night,,, its a scary thought..

Consider it done already. Don't give a fu<K, though. Be proud of yourself. You're on your way to become a real man.

as we left to take the tube we were still kissing and she was still creating converstation but i dont know whats going to happen..

She wants to keep you as her supplicating, free-attention-giving BF who she'll eventually dump when she found a better supplicating fool who CAN satisfy her. In the meanwhile she'll make-out, and fu<k alpha males while your working on other things like school, gym, job, out of town, visiting your parents, etc.,etc..

Drop this chick right now!! Your skills are not at the level where you can reframe the whole situation. You're free to try, though. I'm just telling you how it went down with my first chick.

please any advice to why my thing dont get hard,,,, and my chances with this girl Now??

You were nervous. You didn't really believe you could be having sex with her. It's in your head.
About the girl? Again, forget about her. There is a chance she'll accept you as a BF, but you won't be better off having HER as your girlfriend. She won't really have enough respect for you. Later she might start to mention how cool this or the other guy seems, and tell you that she doesn't really find you sexually attractive but that it's something different/special (in other words: "NOTHING") between the two of you. And that she won't leave you for some cool guy. BS!!

 

[xdreamz]

lol...

"why am i not making you horny?" seriously.....whats up with that

happened to me with another girl of mine, and she just couldn't get me to stay hard.. i would be up for hours just being limp.

so what i did was when fingering her i would get really nasty start saying nasty stuff to her like "I want to taste your ***** juice" and then when i put my fingers out to taste it, it magically worked.

i guess it has something to do with the mood........

 

[StoneCold]

Wow!!

Thanks for all the replys, very surportive,

Great info honeyhitter thank,s

Whats funny is that i dont think i was nervous!! because i ripped her clothes off and jumped on her with my tongue!!

Also i also sneeked her into my bedroom!! so my thoughts were a little on the noise we could would make and my family finding out!!!

she told me i seemed expirienced and also that shes done it a few times before!!!

Its so strange!!!! I still smell here juices near my nose, even though i had a bath!!!!

I dont really care if i see her again!!!! i dont think i fancy her extreamly maybe because shes my first shag, that kinda makes me feel like i wanna keep her around so that i could try new things and expiriment!!!!

Also I love meeting chicks with wingmen!! but when i met this chick i stopped that and hanged out with her, so kinda builidng lots of thoughts around her!!!!

recently i stopped jerking off and watching porn and i am not horny at alll!!! its so weird because when i was a teen i was really horny and crazy!!!

well i guess i need to see what happens now and just concentrate on sorted my problem out

 

[NickSCFC2000]

I don't think I've EVER had a hardon and been panicing at the same time...



I think I'm on to something here

 

[Rebound Material]

well at this point i was started to panik.... i got up I Farted

Im sorry dood, but when i read that part I couldnt help but laugh.

Im sorry to hear about this man.

 

[saber]

simple solution...

order a viagra and make up one hell of an excuse/bull****
you are probably going a little afc which everybody does so just keep that in mind and don't mention or react to the nights events when they get brought up. Just consider this girl practice for the next...and stop watching porn

 

[panosha]

:rockon: or do some kegels or get Horny Goat Weed:rockon:

 

[Master Bates]

Does horny goat weed really work? I didn't think it does.

 

[MR_PERFECT]

Reasons I couldn't get it up, by Mr. Perfect:

- The first time. It was a mixture of the below reason and she was on her period. Stupid me knew nothing about women's bodies and thought the bleeding would stop when she got aroused, like when we urinate.

- She slept with me on the downward slope of my attraction. Some women make you wait too long if you don't know what you're doing with them.

- My first one-night-stand. The idea of sleeping with a woman I didn't know within hours terrified me.

- Too loose.

- First time I slept with 2 women within 4 hrs. of each other. Guilt.

- Lack of Attraction

- The Stealth odor.

- Bad sex.

- She gave in but wasn't into it.

Problems with getting it up is common. In time, you will learn to avoid all the situations that would cause this problem for you. Enjoy the girl you're seeing now, but look for someone you like more.

 

[Holland]

I'd say one of 2 reasons:

-The girl was not hot enough to be arousing
-You we're not focussing on the fact that she was hot and wanted to get fuccked

Just calm down and trust that when you just keep making out with her and fingering her, you'll be hard.


BTW: 3 weeks of no masterbation and no hard one? What the hell did you do to your sex drive? How old are you?

 

[The Inside Man]

Anxiety can kill any sex drive...especially if there girl is putting a lot of pressure on( no pun intended)...try to relax and just let it happen. I was't really comfortable having sex until I'd had a couple partners.

 

[HandyAndy]

i got up I Farted

:crackup: :crackup: :crackup:

 

[FoolsCause]

:crackup: :crackup: :crackup:

Seemed like a troll by that point.

 

[young_gun]

HAHA, some P*ssy you munch on will taste pretty good, but other times it will taste REALLY REALLY BAD. Like I'm talking awful here. The last girl I did it to obviously had something nasty to eat that day because her sh*t tasted like straight garbage. AND on top of that she looked like she hadn't shaved in 3 months. I just straight up told her after I did it that if she ever wanted it again that she HAD TO SHAVE THAT SH*T OFF. Some guys think it's a big joke that you would get a hair stuck in your teeth, but it actually happens. LOL!!!

 

[Thorns]

HAHAHAHA! Oh my God, that sounds so close to mine. Don't worry bud just relax and calm down, I thought that exact same thing but BOY was I proved wrong! It'll all get better, really don't worry.