First time posting, need some advice

[RATM00]

Hey guys,

Its my first post on this board. Ill try to keep my story short and sweet. I met this girl about 6-7 weeks ago at a party.. picked her up using the good ol David Deangelo method. Ever since then we have been talking and hanging out every weekend (i work two jobs and am a full time student so i dont get time on the weekdays to do anything). When we are together we are really flirty and we have a great time. We started hooking up a few weeks ago and just last weekend we had sex. Now things have become akward between her and I. She tells me the other day that she thinks I am just using her to try to get in to her pants, and then another day she tells me she's not looking for a relationship, but she likes me. As for how I feel.. I do like the girl and I do see a possible relationship with her, but were definitely not at that stage right now. Tomorrow were going to talk about things.. anything that I should say or do in particular?

 

[DinoCassanova]

Tell her you're afraid she's just using you to get in your pants, and you don't want to be hurt again. Make her laugh a little. Then just tell her what you just said in your post; you think the two of you have potential, but you're just not "there" yet. That should make you appear not overly anxious to get into a LTR (you're not are you??) and also she'll probably start thinking more seriously about you because you're the one who's seemingly unavailable. It's one of the most basic principles, right? ~Dino

 

[The Nice Guy is Gone]

Tell her you're afraid she's just using you to get in your pants, and you don't want to be hurt again

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