First Time Meeting Girl Online: We Talked and Made Plans for Friday - Now What?

[Dante420]

I don't know how to do the online stuff, and yes I'm 17 so sounds even more ridiculous.


Anyway, girl added me. I commented her pic and she responded with a detailed answer to my question. Conversation started, we made plans and had similar interests. She's going to pick me up and take me to her house Friday.


So between Wednesday and Thursday, how many times should I contact her to keep interest up?

This was on Monday, no contact Tuesday

 

[Igetit!]

While it's cool you have a date set up,why was the date to go to her house?

Is this some girl you'd like to date,or is it a one night stand?


If this is someone from the internet,someone you've never met face to face,I don't think you going to her home was a good idea for the first date.


If you two have already met in person and are comfortable with each other,then cool,but if not,if this Friday will be the first time you two have ever laid eyes on each other,going back to her place may not have been the best idea...EVEN IF IT WAS HER IDEA.


The date should have been scheduled somewhere public in order for her to feel safe/comfortable with you.


For her to invite some stranger OFF THE INTERNET into her home the first day she meet him...I don't know man.



Don't be surprised if she flakes or tries to alter the plans before Friday comes.


Who's idea was this anyway?

 

[Dante420]

While it's cool you have a date set up,why was the date to go to her house?

Is this some girl you'd like to date,or is it a one night stand?


If this is someone from the internet,someone you've never met face to face,I don't think you going to her home was a good idea for the first date.


If you two have already met in person and are comfortable with each other,then cool,but if not,if this Friday will be the first time you two have ever laid eyes on each other,going back to her place may not have been the best idea...EVEN IF IT WAS HER IDEA.


The date should have been scheduled somewhere public in order for her to feel safe/comfortable with you.


For her to invite some stranger OFF THE INTERNET into her home the first day she meet him...I don't know man.



Don't be surprised if she flakes or tries to alter the plans before Friday comes.


Who's idea was this anyway?

Her's this girl took my opening and ran with it. She's gorgeous to, a dime - she'll be happy to get me but I could say the feeling would be likewise.

This girls qualified to be an ltr, walk anywhere with this girl on your arm and your going to be getting all the attention in the room. She's the type of girl that would make your ex-girlfriend jealous because you CLEARLY upgraded.

Blonde hair, very pretty face and fit body.

She told me about her car, and I'm a very effective communicator - if I want a conversation to end up somewhere 9 times outta 10, it'll be the conversation I want.

She offered up a similar interest for us to get together and chill at her house, should be interesting if it happens.

I should probably contact her in the next two days though right? I've never really started anything offline

 

[Igetit!]

Her's this girl took my opening and ran with it.

So going back to her house for a first date was her idea.

That's weird.

I guess you can do it if you want,but BE CAREFUL.

Personally,I'd change the location to somewhere public.

This is weird. It would make sense if she were only after sex,but if she's as hot as you say,then that couldn't be the case.


But if she were looking for a LTR,she'd want to get to know you first OUTSIDE OF HER HOUSE.


She MUST KNOW the signal she's sending by inviting you to her home.

Just be careful man.

 

[Dante420]

So going back to her house for a first date was her idea.

Yes, this girls very attractive in all her pictures, there's no way this can be some Facebook camera tricks. You could tell she wanted to make plans the whole time we were talking, she responded to my first question with a very long descriptive answer which gave me many opportunities to open her. This was all over Myspace comments, then she asked me to get at her on Myspace IM her and that's where we made the plans. She mentioned her car, quality weed and her house - if this works out fate would have just thrown me one of my top 3 biggest bones of my lifetime

 

[Dante420]

anymore advice on this, anything i can do between now an then?

 

[Schwank]

So between Wednesday and Thursday, how many times should I contact her to keep interest up?

Call her up 2 times. Once on Wednesday and once on Thursday. Do NOT talk for longer than 3mins and 20 seconds on both calls!

Seriously, who cares? Don't overanalyse this stuff. I wouldn't bother calling her at all if you are going out on a Friday night... but that's just me.

Further, whose idea was it to set up a Friday night date? If it's yours it just makes you sound lonely and unsociable.. I mean, you're setting up a date on a Friday night with someone you've never met. Haven't you got better things to do, like going out socialising with those you already know?

Also, you're 17. Why are you using online dating as a tool to get chicks? You're still in school, right? Haven't you got a social circle whereby you can game chicks from it?

 

[Dante420]

Must I remind you this Myspace, where a lot of social interaction takes place. And no I've finished high school.


But so much for this, I sent her a message on Myspace and said "Find a way to get in touch with me" because she has no phone, it said she read it but she didn't respond.


Oh well,

 

[Dante420]

So my message got ignored how do I respond to this?

Ignore it and miss my chances or say something witty? Any advice?

 

[AMDG]

Ignore it and miss my chances or say something witty? Any advice?

Is begging for attention the way to increase your chances ? You know the answer already :yes:

 

[r0cky]

So my message got ignored how do I respond to this?

Ignore it and miss my chances or say something witty? Any advice?

Try to get in contact with her once more. If that fails then next her.

 

[Johnny_Kage]

Yes, this girls very attractive in all her pictures, there's no way this can be some Facebook camera tricks. You could tell she wanted to make plans the whole time we were talking, she responded to my first question with a very long descriptive answer which gave me many opportunities to open her. This was all over Myspace comments, then she asked me to get at her on Myspace IM her and that's where we made the plans. She mentioned her car, quality weed and her house - if this works out fate would have just thrown me one of my top 3 biggest bones of my lifetime

You know what they say if something seems too good to be true.

so much for this, I sent her a message on Myspace and said "Find a way to get in touch with me" because she has no phone, it said she read it but she didn't respond.

No phone? Who doesn't have a phone these days? Shady as fvck. And you're 17. Plenty of fakes on myspace. This is probably some 40 year old guy that wants to ass-rape you.

Although I should say that I did meet girls off myspace and aol chat rooms when I was in high school and they were legit and some were attractive. But the interactions went wayyy different than that. Usually, I would send out a mass message to like 100 girls. Some would reply and it would take a good couple of weeks of talking (sometimes longer) to actually get them to hang out. Then they would come over with their friends and I would bring some friends. Then glory times. Typical high school. What happened in your interaction is not typical high school or post-high school for that matter. Sounds to me like you need more experience to know the difference.

I do realize I'm getting to this pretty late. Hope your not dead bro.

JK

 

[nismo-4]

Igetit!, AMDG, Johnny Kage, and Schwank said it all far better than I can. I cannot take up this case as it's already closed.

You're 17. You should be meeting girls in real life anyway. Myspace is not to be used as a main form of gaming.