"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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First time in an under age club.

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Well, yesterday my freind asks me :"Are you comeing to the party today?"
I hesitated and said O.K. I shave, dress up and feel good and go to the party.
I walk down the stairs and hear really loud music. I get into the "club" and there is a wood floor and in the middle there is a dance floor.

I join i couple of my freinds and start dancing with them (i don't really know how to dance but i do "hitch" movie technuiqe). After a minute this hb9 blone girl starts gridning with me (back to back) so i gve her the butt bump.
She looks at me supriesed and i just smile to her and she smiles back.

After that i saw 2 pairs of 2 girls on each pair and i thought trying to dance 1x1 with one of the chiks but they looked so into themselves that i gave up.

Anyway, i enjoyed my time there and i am getting more confident.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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asdfghjkl

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Yeah, for your first time, you did pretty good. My first time going to a club i didn't even dance:( .

Now i learned to just not care about what the girls (sluts) think because they are all there to just be as slutty as possible haha.
 
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