"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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First time in a club

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So tonight was my first time to test my skills in a club. I am only twenty and I don't normally feel like hitting on girls and loud places and I really only like to dance when I'm tipsy so I generally stay outta clubs, but tonight I went with some of my friends for Halloween. I got one of my friends to get me some drinks from the bar and shortly after I hit the dancefloor like a beast. I danced with pretty much every girl I saw that wasn't with somebody that was at the very least a 7. I kinda had this vibe with one chic though it just felt so dirty and I liked it. I was making out with her on the dancefloor and stuff, but I never caught her name. About 30 -40 minutes after I had started to dance with her one of her chubby friends came and got her and stole her away from me and she took her cowboy hat back. I guess the question I'm asking is what is the best way to deal with a ****blocking friend and I need suggestions for seclusion to a more quiet area so I can actually talk to somebody instead of just feel them up on the dancefloor which is great btw. Any suggestions on clubs in general would be much apreciated and maybe tips on keeping your boner down other than just turning the girl around to face you?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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arutha

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Why do you want to talk to her? Its damn loud you're not going to hear her anyway. You have set the mood of highly energetic and very sexual with the dancing and you want to shift it to a slow, boring conversation? If you are dirty dancing and she is into it, just go in for the kiss on the dance floor and escalate it to making out.
 
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black-n-white911

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ur not supossed to talk to these girls,ur supposed to dance/makeout/**** them without ever knowing there name... the music is loud to drown out reality you just have fun, ur not supposed to see them ever again except in the club maybe imo
 
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Don't let it get to you if her friend ****blocks.

If she really likes you, she'll come back for more herself.

or, isolate her from her friends momentarily and number/e-mail close.

Follow up 1-2 days later if you're really interested.

Judge when you're sober.
 
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