"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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first time in a bar, intimidating

bbestar

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I guess it was sort of college night so alot of people were there...

I didn't know anyone so basically I observed everyone, while the place was crowded and everyone getting dollar drafts.

The music was extremely loud so you couldnt even talk to someone without whispering.

Anyone have a similar experience? Some things i can improve on..

thanks
 

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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

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first... step out of the rectangular thing in the wall... this is a door. that blueness above you... this is called the sky... this is what its like to be outside... start there.
 
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