"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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first time im dealing with a quiet girl

johnny_depp

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I finally got a job and have been trying my DJ skills and let me tel you I have been doing really good. well for about a week I noticed this attractive girl and I was truthfully a little nervous to meet her. but today I got balls and asked her what her name was and I shook her hand told her my name and said nice to meet you. I noticed she is really really quiet. I even asked a person that works with her and he said thats how she is. for some reason she really turns me on. but heres another problem she will not smile when I talk with her, in fact I dont think I have ever seen her smile. she just looks kinda down all the time. im wondering do you guys think I should go out with her or forget about it? and im pretty sure she kinda likes me cause she gives me sneaky eyes when im not looking but i can some how tell lol. so what do you guys think i should do?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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everybody smiles dude.. what you should is simple.. get her out of that atmosphere..she might be get boring..take her out and have coffee together or lunch..you will get her..
 
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