Zekko, I've appreciated your advice before and u do make a good point. But honestly, the vibe I got when she offered wasn't the type you expect when the girl wants to see you. I really felt like it was an excuse and if i had agreed, she woulda pulled something last minute again. Then i woulda completely lost the frame. But moving forward, I'll keep what you said in mind.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
first time hooking up w a divorced chick and now she flakes
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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'Recently divorced' is the giant elephant in the room, 'too available' in this instance seems a moot point
Kailex
Master Don Juan
Stop worrying so much about this girl. She needs to be your Plate Z even if you don't have a Plate A.
She's recently divorced and is probably only looking for some rebounding.
Percentage of me taking this girl seriously: 0%.
Just respond back to her when she contacts you. Other than that, I wouldn't be going out of my way to try to get her to come over or go out.
She's recently divorced and is probably only looking for some rebounding.
Percentage of me taking this girl seriously: 0%.
Just respond back to her when she contacts you. Other than that, I wouldn't be going out of my way to try to get her to come over or go out.
VladPatton
Master Don Juan
Yeah man, don't take this chick seriously. She is back on the cὀck carousel after a few years of marriage and feels she "deserves" a pack of hot dogs throws at her face for a year straight. What she did with you those first few nights is what she's doing with nearly every guy she finds attractive. I bet all her friends are on the sidelines chanting "you go girl!". LOL
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At least you got some. If she hits you up, bang that ass again. Hard.
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At least you got some. If she hits you up, bang that ass again. Hard.