Hey guys, so i had my first hookup w someone in my extended social circle who was recently divorced. She was dtf on the first night after we went clubbing, but i broke my condom and didnt have a spare.
after that night tho, she seemed really interested, txted me how she can't wait to see me and wanted to make all these plans to go party. We did the deed the 2nd night we hung out. Interest remained high, verbally at least. Asked me to go travel w her and stuff.
Anyway, i was out of town for about a week and when i got back she became all flakey. Tried to get her to come over but she said she had to console a friend who had consoled her about her divorce. She did counter offer the bext day, but i didnt want to seem too available since she told me last minute so i declined.
I asked her to hang out again, she agreed but cancelled last minute. I sent her a txt "gay, you owe me drinks next time we hang out haha ", and was about to leave it at that.
I was surprised when she called me later that night and actually apologized for being flakey lately. She said she just finalized her divorce that day and she could come over, but wasn't in a good place. I told her i get it and left it at that.
I haven't contacted her in about 3 days since she flaked. My question should i be treating this girl any different bc of her recent divorce? If she hadn't called me, i would have just nexted her. Still planning on it, although im not sure i should so quickly.
Thoughts appreciated. Oh and we are both 28. Her divorce ended w no kids, husband supposedly cheated on her according to friends
after that night tho, she seemed really interested, txted me how she can't wait to see me and wanted to make all these plans to go party. We did the deed the 2nd night we hung out. Interest remained high, verbally at least. Asked me to go travel w her and stuff.
Anyway, i was out of town for about a week and when i got back she became all flakey. Tried to get her to come over but she said she had to console a friend who had consoled her about her divorce. She did counter offer the bext day, but i didnt want to seem too available since she told me last minute so i declined.
I asked her to hang out again, she agreed but cancelled last minute. I sent her a txt "gay, you owe me drinks next time we hang out haha ", and was about to leave it at that.
I was surprised when she called me later that night and actually apologized for being flakey lately. She said she just finalized her divorce that day and she could come over, but wasn't in a good place. I told her i get it and left it at that.
I haven't contacted her in about 3 days since she flaked. My question should i be treating this girl any different bc of her recent divorce? If she hadn't called me, i would have just nexted her. Still planning on it, although im not sure i should so quickly.
Thoughts appreciated. Oh and we are both 28. Her divorce ended w no kids, husband supposedly cheated on her according to friends