First Time Cold Approach

[slickaz]

Alright..
so today i went to the mall after work.

i was walking by a shop and noticed this very hott blonde over the counter.
one part of me (The regular side) said keep walkin...
the other part of me (The DonJuan Forum side) said what would the guys on DJ forum do?..yes..go get a number.

so..being the dude i am..i stepped into the shop..walked around..unfortunately..turns out the shop was a womens shoe shop..yes..you read right.

she looked at me odd..anyway so i said hey how you goin?
she said good! with a big smile.
me" Busy dat?
Her: No, i wish! itd keep me busy n time would fly by
Me: Haha yeh i can imagine..but you must love this shop no? womens fashion?
Her: Yeh! i spend all my time sho*dribble dribble dribble*
Me: nice! whats your name?
Her: **Smoking hot German chic**name
Me: Nice name.
Her: You didnt tell me yours
Me: oh * name*
Her: Nice name! *big smile*
Me: So listen i gotta get going to the next shop, but what you doing tomoro nyt?
Her: i got no big plans..why? what you doing?
Me: Oh im hosting a japanese fashion party for a friends new clothing store.
Her: Cool!! nice..
Me: Well put your number in my phone, ill give you the details turn up tomoro and you can chill with me in VIP.
Her: AWESOME!!!
Me: cool ill see you later *Hot german chic*

YESSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS!!!!!!! finally a cold approach!!! now i dont fear it nomore!

 

[TheBucketOfTruth]

Nice job man. Hard to see anything wrong there. Her asking for your name is an obvious IOI, and your aggressive approach probably impressed her. The fact that you cut to the chase and asked her what she was doing tomorrow night was good, especially given that you already had a plan with friends.

 

[Scars]

Seems like she was deffinately feeling you.

Keep us updated and let us know how the date goes.

 

[slickaz]

VERY DISSAPPOINTED!

OK so heres the continuation to that story.

After i finished at the mall with Hot German Chics number.

i have a physio appointment. i go there and theres a new receptionist.

Anyway in the wake of my recent first success, i chat her up and get her number.. she promply writes it down before i even i tell her to put it in my phone < she noticed me going for my phone>

so i was quite happy.

anyway later last night <being that im supposed to see hot german chic for that party tonight> i text the hot german chic like
"It was good meeting you, if you need directions to the shop for tomoros party , let me know. If not ill see you there, 8pm."
No reply.
wake up this morning, NO REPLY!

im thinking maybe she changed her mind after i left, so now shes flaking..how typical.

Anyway the Receptionist however has text me back like thanks for takin my number. hope we can meet up sometime this week.

ONLY PROBLEM IS:
the receptionist is a bit of "Blonde"
i mean i was telling her where i grew up, iin Miami and Dubai.
she goes, Wheres Miami?
so i explained, she goes yeh i know Miami is in the US but i thought LA had a beach called Miami.
Me: ?!?!?!
she goes: so then where exactly is canada? and mexico? arent they neighbours? and US is above Canada..
I mean this girl was SERIOUS!!

so i switched topics, talked about weather
she goes yeh if the weather doesnt stop raining im like SO! not stepping outa the office.
across the conversation, she just came across as really very ditsy.
i dunno..

Either way im very disappointed with the German chic flaking on me coz i really thought she had high IOI, i mean she was practically begging for me to stay in the shop when i left..WOMEN!

 

[daygameguy]

ONLY PROBLEM IS:
the receptionist is a bit of "Blonde"
i mean i was telling her where i grew up, iin Miami and Dubai.
she goes, Wheres Miami?
so i explained, she goes yeh i know Miami is in the US but i thought LA had a beach called Miami.
Me: ?!?!?!
she goes: so then where exactly is canada? and mexico? arent they neighbours? and US is above Canada..
I mean this girl was SERIOUS!!

lol she is totally my type. You have no idea what i'd do with her

btw, your german chick may not have flaked. Just ring her phone! stop texting. and your text sounded SO lame.. "It was nice meeting you.." wtf! Be straight to the point... and better yet.. don't be needy.. just bring up some funny thing you guys talked about... pump buying temp before asking her for the date.

 

[slickaz]

Ok so heres the continuation from my first time cold approach.

so i just got back from a saturday night out.
its 3 AM here.

my night started of at this party i was hosting for a friends Hip Hop/ skate botique designer label shop...i had invited the German chic and the receptionist.

Problem was the weather had gotten really bad and through the day we had cyclone warnings so i got call from the receptionist apologizing that it was too wet and windy to come out, her hair would mess up...:cuss: so i said thats cool no problem enjoy your night in. ur missing out tho...she said we'll catch up on monday.cool.

so i went to the party. and they had organized these models in skimpy french maid outfits to serve drinks and finger foods.
there were 7 gorgeous girls and one real sweet sexy bartender.

No German Chic:cuss:

So i was in two minds....my first time cold approach ended in her flaking after giving me her number. and the second girl i cold approached on the same day, couldnt come through....do i give up cold approaching? since its not working for me? or do i try one more time?
initially i didnt want to try ever again. then i thought about what you guys said about women flaking..

so i went ahead and pulled 3 of the models serving stuff aside
Blonde Brunette and Blonde 2...spoke to them, just calmly and very relaxed being myself..
i enjoyed it.
i was wearing a new cologne. apparantly it worked wonders.
as one of the girls i spoke to said wow! you smell so sexy. i was taken back..didnt show it. anyway as i was pulling my fone out to ask her number, she already started telling me 0#########....

Anyway thanks you guys, if it wasnt for ya'll i would probably have just never tried cold approaching girls.

Oh also, i chatted up the bartended..
i got 4 numbers tonight and 3 other girls giving me compliments on my looks/scent. but i think thats because they saw me kino'ing 3 hot models at different times.lol.

Thanks again, sorry for long post but i just thought for the guys that are not sure about approaching girls...they really are not that bad to just go up and say hi..you'd be amazed how happy and conversational they are once you smile and talk to them....the bartender was the toughest one to get funny topics for coz she was busy, but would come back every 20 seconds...i picked on topics like, her tattoos, where they lead! what time she finishes work, whats her special drink, where did she learn to do it, show me. etc etc. got a number and a date set up.

good luck felllas

 

[Lurcur]

good job.