"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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first time at the club...A SUCCESS!!!

JayCamx23

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went to the club for the first time and i was clueless about what to expect. i went with 2 of my friends. one had gone 2 weeks ago for the first time and the other was a rookie like me. so we walk in and survey the field.

i quickly find out that it is nearly IMPOSSIBLE to talk to chicks in there. i tried some chick and she had no idea what i was saying. needless to say i got the big R. i could only laugh cuz she had no clue what i was saying lol.

anyway a few minutes later i make eye contact with a HB9 and say to my friend "i got one right here!!" and thankfully he just says "go!! GO!! NOW!!" and i go get her. i kinda tilt my head towards the dancefloor hinting to her friend (HB7) to come with me onto the dancefloor. she says shes with someone (i think she said that...couldnt quite hear lol) but she just pointed to the HB9 i made eye contact with and i put my arm around her and we grinded for a few songs. btw without the motivation from my friend to just GO, i would not have gone up to talk to her. i thanked him after.

about a half hour later i find this really hot chick (HB9.5). i make eye contact and smile and kinda wave. she returns a big smile and i go right up without hesitation. i just put my arm around her and take her onto the dancefloor without any words. so we are grinding for about 5 min and shes kinda got her head back where i could make out with her from here. so naturally i just lean forward and down a little and close my eyes and bam were making out intensely!!! im thinking to myself "wow, not one word has been said between us and were making out and my hands are in her shorts." wooohooo!!!
after a few minutes making out i pull away and we grind a lil longer. the only thing im pissed about now is why the fvck didnt i get her number. no doubt i would be eventually getting more than her tongue had i got her number. well at the time i was satisfied considering it was my first time at the club. so i was very happy to say the least at the time. but i feel like there is some unfinished business.

so overall it was a good time for a first at the club. only thing was for some reason there werent many girls there at all. i was kinda disappointed in that. well, if you enjoy fat chicks then tonight was the night for you lol.

i am goin back there with my friends again next saturday and hopefully there will be more chicks and hopefuly ill get more than making out. and get some numbers next time. should be sweet.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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iCandy

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Hey sweet report. It was short, simple and honest. I Like.

Make sure you give another report the next time you go.
 

JayCamx23

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oh man im so pumped up to go next week. the theme is "the candyshop night"...sounds good to me :D . btw last nights theme was "sticker night". basically people put these little stickers on people. maybe thats the reason not many girls went. anyway i will post a report. only worry i have is that i just got a job and am praying that i dont have to work that night. that would suck:cuss:
 

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HAH sounds awsome, Too bad u didnt get her #, anyways she might be there next week also:D. Is there an age limit?? Couse i am 16 and dont know if security would let me in. Nice job though
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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