"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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First time at club. Not fully Successful, why?

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Alright so i went to my first club recently, (ages 16+). Went up and grinded on a bunch of girls but eventually one of us would get bored and leave. I also got rejected a lot which i thought was surprising considering my looks are good. Any secrets to minimize rejection on the floor (i know there is always some rejection though) My other question is: how can the dance floor really bring any success. I started talking to some girls while i was grinding that helped create a bond between us but still really brought nothing.

Once my friends and I left the dance floor though we met a couple of girls and that was a lot of fun because i'm great at socializing and got #'s and invitations to parties ect. But now i feel a lot of time is wasted on the dance floor, as i got nothing out of it. All my success came from chilling with girls at the tables.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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International said:
I also got rejected a lot which i thought was surprising considering my looks are good.
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LOL. You should have told the girls that.

"You can't reject me, I'm too hot." LOL
 
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a 16 and up club?? wow...

singing..


"the pedos come out at night! what! what! what!"
 
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DonJuan11 said:
LOL. You should have told the girls that.

"You can't reject me, I'm too hot." LOL
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Thx for your help.... It's always good to have a self improvement forum where people try to put you down. Now i agree, yeah that probably was not very well said out on my part, but really now, there is no reason try to be a prick so someone who just wants some advice.
 
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clubs are some of the worst places to pick up chicks. Don't worry about it bro.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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