First sign she's drifting off.

[RangerMIke]

Got a PM from someone asking me what is the first sign I get indicating a woman is about to drift off. I had to think about it a bit and in my experience, the canary in the coal mine, so to speak, that sh!t is about to go sideways, is that she starts showing signs that does not really enjoy doing things for you. A chick in a new relationship actually shows enthusiasm for doing things that please you... she might continue to do those things, but if her level of enjoyment appreciably drops off this is a sign.

You have to pay attention, because she will continue to do things for you even after her interest level has dropped, because she's not quite ready to let go, and does this out of habit. It is a level of enthusiasm that is missing that is the first indication, that you need to start looking to replace her. This takes a bit of emotional intelligence on the man's part, and it is the only exception to the rule that you should judge a woman ONLY by her actions.

When this starts to happen (drop in enthusiasm) could also mean she is settling into relationship mode, which means you may not be losing her, but her behavior is about to take a dramatic change for the worst.

Thought I would post this here for discussion, because frankly I had not really been too concerned about this in the past since I'm not a relationship guy, and others might have a different experience. Thoughts?

 

[AlphaNate]

I was pretty sure it was over when she started sucking my friend's ****.

 

[devilkingx2]

hmmm I'll definitely start looking out for this in my relationships

 

[Reykhel]

hmmm I'll definitely start looking out for this in my relationships

what? That she's sucking your friend's c≠ck?

 

[Urbanyst]

Usually she stops trying to please you, shows less respect for you or loses interest in regular sex.

You can feel it in your gut though. You just know something is wrong and you feel powerless to fix it.

 

[devilkingx2]

what? That she's sucking your friend's c≠ck?

i was referring to OP's post lmao

 

[Young OG]

I was pretty sure it was over when she started sucking my friend's ****.

I was pretty sure it was over when my kids mom started banging 2 guys behind my back

 

[bigneil]

The first sign circa 2017 is a non-returned text.

But this should never happen. If you wait for her to initiate every time after each date, you won't push her away by smothering her to begin with.

 

[fastlife]

The first sign circa 2017 is a non-returned text.

But this should never happen. If you wait for her to initiate every time after each date, you won't push her away by smothering her to begin with.

Except you'll lose just as many girls for not texting her enough. Plenty of girls will no-reponse and then a week later enthusiastically meet up at your house.

As far as girls you're regularly seeing, I'd say that gut instinct triumphs everything. Your subconscious knows before you're conscious mind will even entertain the idea she's drifting away. The depravity of what she's willing to do in bed is another tell--if some sex act she used to do enthusiastically lowers in intensity or is taken off the table--"Oh, I don't like that. It's gross"--you're well on your way to being beta-ized.

 

[bigneil]

Except you'll lose just as many girls for not texting her enough.

"Love never dies of starvation but often of indigestion"

 

[nismo-4]

When things go south, go:

1. Ghost
2. Look for her replacement
3. Play your PS4

Take your pick. She's likely moved on anyway.

Case closed.

 

[devilkingx2]

Except you'll lose just as many girls for not texting her enough. Plenty of girls will no-reponse and then a week later enthusiastically meet up at your house.

well yeah, you've gotta strike a reasonable balance

 

[Trump]

Got a PM from someone asking me what is the first sign I get indicating a woman is about to drift off.

A chick in a new relationship actually shows enthusiasm for doing things that please you... she might continue to do those things, but if her level of enjoyment appreciably drops off this is a sign.

Thought I would post this here for discussion, because frankly I had not really been too concerned about this in the past since I'm not a relationship guy, and others might have a different experience. Thoughts?

At the beginning of a relationship a woman is on her best behaviour because she wants to seduce you. She is innocent, she is polite. she is seductive, she is sexy, does everything necessary to make you fall in love with her. Once she has you, or some time has passed, then you start seeing the REAL her. The mask starts to come off; she is less nice, less attentive, less sexy, less seductive, more put downs. When she does, the guy tries harder because he thinks he did something wrong. Then the real head spinning starts...

But ideally, who cares if she is about to drift off. That's not the mans problem. If you did everything right so she fell in love with you and slept with you, why would you CHANGE anything? We are not here to serve women, we are here be great powerful men for society.

 

[bigneil]

At the beginning of a relationship a woman is on her best behaviour because she wants to seduce you. She is innocent, she is polite. she is seductive, she is sexy, does everything necessary to make you fall in love with her. Once she has you, or some time has passed, then you start seeing the REAL her.

At what point does this happen? In other words, at what point can we assume we are past the "BS zone"? 3 months?

 

[bigneil]

When things go south, go:

1. Ghost
2. Look for her replacement
3. Play your PS4

Take your pick. She's likely moved on anyway.

Case closed.

Wait, so all relationships can be graphed on a linear trajectory, namely down? A \ curve? Are there no U curves? Or maybe @, &, $ or Q curves?

 

[devilkingx2]

Wait, so all relationships can be graphed on a linear trajectory, namely down? A \ curve? Are there no U curves? Or maybe @, &, $ or Q curves?

9 times out of 10 you won't be able to recognize and fix the cause of the decline before it's too late

but that 1 in 10 is where it'd look like a U

 

[ubercat]

@bigneil nah 3 mths is the talk. Absolute minimum 6 mths to drop the mask. Earlier than that is a strong indicator she s trash.

 

[The Duke]

First Signs:
-Doesn't return texts as quickly.
-Doesn't initiate texts as often.
-Her calling habits change.
-Less available.
-Doesn't want to commit to plans.
-Commits to a plan then changes last minute.
-Mentions covert things that convey she might not be so sure of the relationship as she once was.
-Doesn't want sechs.