First sex, car ok? Or hotel

[IHateIllogicalPeople]

Hey there. Im 30 in NYC. Met this 25 yr old 2 weeks ago. Shes in PA school so she lives with her family.

I have family over from Europe until end of August so my place isn't exactly ideal for this right now.

We have made out/oral sex in the car a few times. She wants to have sex (last night she was going crazy in car saying let's do it now).

So question is, is first time sex in the car okay? I was thinking hotel for first sex but neither my or her schedule align up during the day time (i haven't told her the hotel plan yet). I have a nice car so that's not a problem. Also have a grand Cherokee where the seats can go down and put a mattress in the back lol

But im starting to believe she thinks I dont want sex lol. She hasn't responded since last night when I said no to sex (4th time now due to car only situation).

Even if we do the hotel , its gonna be like 12am to 3am . Because both have to be out for work/school by 8am.

 

[CornbreadFed]

Grow a pair and have sex at your place or hers. You are 30 years plus acting like a teenager right now.

 

[BPH]

We have made out/oral sex in the car a few times. She wants to have sex (last night she was going crazy in car saying let's do it now).

But im starting to believe she thinks I dont want sex lol. She hasn't responded since last night when I said no to sex (4th time now due to car only situation).

So you've denied this girl sex 4 times because YOU think your first time with her needs to not be in your car?

I'd be surprised if you sleep with this chick at all...no sh** she's not responding...

Or you could be a big boy and find your own place.

Did you even read the post? Or just the title?

I have family over from Europe until end of August so my place isn't exactly ideal for this right now.

There you go.

 

[Gamisch]

So you've denied this girl sex 4 times because YOU think your first time with her needs to not be in your car?

I'd be surprised if you sleep with this chick at all...no sh** she's not responding...



Did you even read the post? Or just the title?



There you go.

Still he could be a big boy and act as such. Its about the mindset. Regardless of the how and why he can't invite her to his home. The "worst "thing that can happen is she gets impatient and goes for the next dude. Well...like that's such a disaster...

Or he could ;
- be less starving for p00sy. And simply tell her about his family staying over. If anything, IMEa woman who is REALLY down will put a man in even higher regards for this mindset. Familia first. P00sy comes and go.

- get a hotel. Somewhere in another city where you both can freely move. Make it a romantic experience for her.

That's handling it like a big boy.

 

[IHateIllogicalPeople]

Still he could be a big boy and act as such. Its about the mindset. Regardless of the how and why he can't invite her to his home. The "worst "thing that can happen is she gets impatient and goes for the next dude. Well...like that's such a disaster...

Or he could ;
- be less starving for p00sy. And simply tell her about his family staying over. If anything, IMEa woman who is REALLY down will put a man in even higher regards for this mindset. Familia first. P00sy comes and go.

- get a hotel. Somewhere in another city where you both can freely move. Make it a romantic experience for her.

That's handling it like a big boy.

What?

Did you even read or you just having a bad day today?

I can literally take her to the Maldives just to fk her, money isn't the issue. At. All.

It's the time and physical constraints.

Im not gonna take her to my house where there's like 12 people and kids over.

So the next logical question was, just give it to her in the car as she wants or wait it out for the hotel once our timing matches. In other words, is first sex in the car ok, I dont have that specific experience since all my first times have been either hotel or my house/girls house.

Not a single thing you said holds any weight if you properly read my post, with context and understanding.

Well until the end anyways, where you basically said dont do car. Do hotel. That's the type of responses im looking for (i.e. weighing out the two places)

 

[IHateIllogicalPeople]

So you've denied this girl sex 4 times because YOU think your first time with her needs to not be in your car?

I'd be surprised if you sleep with this chick at all...no sh** she's not responding...



Did you even read the post? Or just the title?



There you go.

Thanks for the response (and actually reading).

Yeah I was just wondering if its an OK move, like in you guys opinion/experience, so have the first time sex be in the car. If I wait for hotel/my house, the timing sits at about a month for my place and about 2/3 weeks for hotel

 

[zekko]

Personally, I think sex in the car is uncomfortable as can be. Great for a teenager, but I'm a little surprised a 25 year old woman was so down for it. Some people get off on having sex in strange places though, so maybe she's one of them.

 

[BPH]

Thanks for the response (and actually reading).

Yeah I was just wondering if its an OK move, like in you guys opinion/experience, so have the first time sex be in the car. If I wait for hotel/my house, the timing sits at about a month for my place and about 2/3 weeks for hotel

I think you're creating your own problem here.

This girl has been down to f*** in your car on 4 separate occasions, according to you. YOU are the one denying her that, because you have some bias about that being your "first" with her. If it doesn't matter to her, I don't know why it matters to you.

Yeah, car sex isn't particularly comfortable or fun, but it's much better than having to pay for a hotel and/or not having sex with this girl at all - which is what I think will be the outcome since she's probably wondering why you won't f*** her in your car.

 

[CornbreadFed]

Did you even read the post? Or just the title?

updated lol

 

[RoadKing_Rabbit]

I think you're creating your own problem here.

This girl has been down to f*** in your car on 4 separate occasions, according to you. YOU are the one denying her that, because you have some bias about that being your "first" with her. If it doesn't matter to her, I don't know why it matters to you.

Yeah, car sex isn't particularly comfortable or fun, but it's much better than having to pay for a hotel and/or not having sex with this girl at all - which is what I think will be the outcome since she's probably wondering why you won't f*** her in your car.

IDK, man. Some of the wildest and fun s3x I've had was in my jeep wrangler and a chevy impala. :-D

Then again, since age is on the topic I was in my early to mid 20's on both of those occasions and could smoke 20+ cigs a day (Wish i'd never done it, seriously gents, put the damn things down.) while my bp was 116/68 and my resting heart rate was 56 BPM. So I'm fairly certain at my age car s3x isn't going to be so common and I've become more seamless with 'transitions.'

 

[Gamisch]

What?

Did you even read or you just having a bad day today?

I can literally take her to the Maldives just to fk her, money isn't the issue. At. All.

It's the time and physical constraints.

Im not gonna take her to my house where there's like 12 people and kids over.

So the next logical question was, just give it to her in the car as she wants or wait it out for the hotel once our timing matches. In other words, is first sex in the car ok, I dont have that specific experience since all my first times have been either hotel or my house/girls house.

Not a single thing you said holds any weight if you properly read my post, with context and understanding.

Well until the end anyways, where you basically said dont do car. Do hotel. That's the type of responses im looking for (i.e. weighing out the two places)

Welcome to the forum, great way to make friends. If anyone has a bad day its you, a grown man wondering how to invite a woman properly lol.

If you are so sure why you even ask the question? You 12 or something? You've met her FOUR times and still couldn't come up with a way to feck her LOL. And then you wonder why she lost interest you gotta be trolling!

If you can take her to the Maldives why do you even ask us for advice? Be a big boy and act accordingly.

Talking about reading;

Ill repeat: if you are really that guy you dont mind putting a woman on hold for a month, while she will simply waits like a good girl until you give her the green light.

Why so desperate?

 

[IHateIllogicalPeople]

Welcome to the forum, great way to make friends. If anyone has a bad day its you, a grown man wondering how to invite a woman properly lol.

If you are so sure why you even ask the question? You 12 or something? You've met her FOUR times and still couldn't come up with a way to feck her LOL. And then you wonder why she lost interest you gotta be trolling!

If you can take her to the Maldives why do you even ask us for advice? Be a big boy and act accordingly.

Talking about reading;

Ill repeat: if you are really that guy you dont mind putting a woman on hold for a month, while she will simply waits like a good girl until you give her the green light.

Why so desperate?

Dude the only one creating problems is you. I can't believe I have to lay this out for you:

INVITING her is NOT the problem. I have 12 family members and kids at home. TEMPORARILY until end of August. She lives with family as well and can't


I can fk her in the car, the Brooklyn bridge, in a bathroom. That wasn't the point tho, was it? READ: "in your guys opinion/experience, is FIRST time sex between the two ok in car or should just wait out until hotel

I've ****ed over a hundred girls, in every place you can imagine. But the first session has never been in a car. Hence the reason I created this topic.

You seem stuck on a made up scenario where I dont know how to fk her. Instead of reading the actual question.

 

[IHateIllogicalPeople]

I think you're creating your own problem here.

This girl has been down to f*** in your car on 4 separate occasions, according to you. YOU are the one denying her that, because you have some bias about that being your "first" with her. If it doesn't matter to her, I don't know why it matters to you.

Yeah, car sex isn't particularly comfortable or fun, but it's much better than having to pay for a hotel and/or not having sex with this girl at all - which is what I think will be the outcome since she's probably wondering why you won't f*** her in your car.

Makes sense. So I guess ill just take her on a wild ride in my car for now, until hotel logistics work out or maybe by then its end of August and I have my house back to myself then.

IDK, man. Some of the wildest and fun s3x I've had was in my jeep wrangler and a chevy impala. :-D

Then again, since age is on the topic I was in my early to mid 20's on both of those occasions and could smoke 20+ cigs a day (Wish i'd never done it, seriously gents, put the damn things down.) while my bp was 116/68 and my resting heart rate was 56 BPM. So I'm fairly certain at my age car s3x isn't going to be so common and I've become more seamless with 'transitions.'

Haha hell yeah. Have had some great sex in the car, car space is never a problem (s class is spacious in the back, and the Cherokee we can literally lay down in).

I was just curious about it being first time. But yeah it seems like she's down for it in car then i guess it'll be it then.

 

[Gamisch]

Dude the only one creating problems is you. I can't believe I have to lay this out for you:

INVITING her is NOT the problem. I have 12 family members and kids at home. TEMPORARILY until end of August. She lives with family as well and can't


I can fk her in the car, the Brooklyn bridge, in a bathroom. That wasn't the point tho, was it? READ: "in your guys opinion/experience, is FIRST time sex between the two ok in car or should just wait out until hotel

I've ****ed over a hundred girls, in every place you can imagine. But the first session has never been in a car. Hence the reason I created this topic.

You seem stuck on a made up scenario where I dont know how to fk her. Instead of reading the actual question.

I bet your (passive )aggressive tone works wonders with the ladies.

READ ,THIRD time

Why dont you simply TELL HER to be patient. One freaking month dude. She is not the last woman to ever meet you. Slow down cowboy!!!

Your attitude might be your biggest problem, besides your lack of the ability to read the room. Do we need to guide you like a little boy?

If a woman is down with you, you can put her on hold by waiting. If you make her feel horny by making out spitting enough game she'll do it ANYWHERE.

The facts however: is that you lost this one by being lethargic and passive like a btch. And she's tired of that shyte. Thats why she doesn't respond. She knows you'll waste her time...

You sound desperate and frustrated lol

 

[Clockwerk50]

When I was a roofer, my boss, let’s call him Jose, ran his own company. He subcontracted under a larger company called Columbus, which secured contracts for new-build homes that needed roofs installed. Columbus would then pass these jobs down to smaller contractors like Jose. He only had three employees: himself, me, and one other guy.

To maximize his earnings, Jose took on as many jobs as possible. He would drive around and do about an eighth of a roof on one house, move to the next, do another piece, and then cycle back to finish the first one later. His logic was that once he started a job, no other contractor could take it.

It’s the same thing with women. The goal is to seal the deal as quickly as possible, regardless of where you are or what’s happening, and lock things in to prevent anyone else to beat you to the finish line or new obstacles or resistances to arise. The first time is rarely as mind-blowing or smooth as the second time anyway, but once you've crossed that boundary and threshold together, you can coordinate better logistics later.

For example, last year I hooked up with a girl on my office desk. It wasn't amazing, and I ended up with a bruised knee, but afterward, she was adamant about finding a comfortable place with a mattress and without the paranoia. So, we got a hotel for the next time. Another time with another woman, the first hookup was outside a club in my car, and for the second round, she came over to my house a week after for a much better experience.

 

[IHateIllogicalPeople]

I bet your (passive )aggressive tone works wonders with the ladies.

READ ,THIRD time

Why dont you simply TELL HER to be patient. One freaking month dude. She is not the last woman to ever meet you. Slow down cowboy!!!

Your attitude might be your biggest problem, besides your lack of the ability to read the room. Do we need to guide you like a little boy?

If a woman is down with you, you can put her on hold by waiting. If you make her feel horny by making out spitting enough game she'll do it ANYWHERE.

The facts however: is that you lost this one by being lethargic and passive like a btch. And she's tired of that shyte. Thats why she doesn't respond. She knows you'll waste her time...

You sound desperate and frustrated lol

You: tell her to wait
Also you: you lost her because you passive and didnt fk her. (Meanwhile she's texting me right now and possibly planning to meet if she gets done early)

Lmao at first I thought you were just frustrated but clearly you just slow AND frustrated. You don't have respond you know.

No amount of explaining will get it through you. Which is funny considering EVERYONE else here read the post and responded like normal educated humans, and here you are

I asked for insight or advice, since your posts are neither of those, you are free not to respond

 

[BadBoy89]

- Met this 25 yr old 2 weeks ago.
- She hasn't responded since last night when I said no to sex (4th time now due to car only situation).
- Even if we do the hotel , its gonna be like 12am to 3am . Because both have to be out for work/school by 8am.
- I dont have that specific experience since all my first times have been either hotel or my house/girls house.
- I've ****ed over a hundred girls, in every place you can imagine. But the first session has never been in a car.
- So question is, is first time sex in the car okay?

You have met a 25 year old girl 14 days ago and made out / oral sex in car 2 times. She wanted to have sex in 4 times in the 14 days since you met her but you rejected her each time because of the car only situation.

Your question for Sosuave is: "Even though I have slept with 101 girls, and the first times with those girls have been 33 at a hotel, 33 at my house, and 35 at her house, is first time sex in a car ok?"

I guess its ok if she's ok with it.

 

[IHateIllogicalPeople]

When I was a roofer, my boss, let’s call him Jose, ran his own company. He subcontracted under a larger company called Columbus, which secured contracts for new-build homes that needed roofs installed. Columbus would then pass these jobs down to smaller contractors like Jose. He only had three employees: himself, me, and one other guy.

To maximize his earnings, Jose took on as many jobs as possible. He would drive around and do about an eighth of a roof on one house, move to the next, do another piece, and then cycle back to finish the first one later. His logic was that once he started a job, no other contractor could take it.

It’s the same thing with women. The goal is to seal the deal as quickly as possible, regardless of where you are or what’s happening, and lock things in. The first time is rarely as mind-blowing or smooth as the second time anyway, but once you've crossed that boundary and threshold together, you can coordinate better logistics later.

For example, last year I hooked up with a girl on my office desk. It wasn't amazing, and I ended up with a bruised knee, but afterward, she was adamant about finding a comfortable place with a mattress and without the paranoia. So, we got a hotel for the next time. Another time with another woman, the first hookup was outside a club in my car, and for the second round, she came over to my house a week after for a much better experience.

Thank you. That was really insightful and exactly the kind of information I was looking for.

So its settled, car will do for now until the house is cleared up!!

Appreciate it man

You have met a 25 year old girl 14 days ago and made out / oral sex in car 2 times. She wanted to have sex in 4 times in the 14 days since you met her but you rejected her each time because of the car only situation.

Your question for Sosuave is: "Even though I have slept with 101 girls, and the first times with those girls have been 33 at a hotel, 33 at my house, and 35 at her house, is first time sex in a car ok?"

I guess its ok if she's ok with it.

@BadBoy89 Yeah I see what you mean. I just never fked a girl in the car as first sex so I was curious what SOME of you logically experienced people had to say. I Appreciate the input man.

 

[Bokanovsky]

When I was a roofer, my boss, let’s call him Jose, ran his own company. He subcontracted under a larger company called Columbus, which secured contracts for new-build homes that needed roofs installed. Columbus would then pass these jobs down to smaller contractors like Jose. He only had three employees: himself, me, and one other guy.

To maximize his earnings, Jose took on as many jobs as possible. He would drive around and do about an eighth of a roof on one house, move to the next, do another piece, and then cycle back to finish the first one later. His logic was that once he started a job, no other contractor could take it.

It’s the same thing with women. The goal is to seal the deal as quickly as possible, regardless of where you are or what’s happening, and lock things in to prevent anyone else to beat you to the finish line or new obstacles or resistances to arise. The first time is rarely as mind-blowing or smooth as the second time anyway, but once you've crossed that boundary and threshold together, you can coordinate better logistics later.

For example, last year I hooked up with a girl on my office desk. It wasn't amazing, and I ended up with a bruised knee, but afterward, she was adamant about finding a comfortable place with a mattress and without the paranoia. So, we got a hotel for the next time. Another time with another woman, the first hookup was outside a club in my car, and for the second round, she came over to my house a week after for a much better experience.

This is a great analogy and 100% correct.

 

[CornbreadFed]

When I was a roofer, my boss, let’s call him Jose, ran his own company. He subcontracted under a larger company called Columbus, which secured contracts for new-build homes that needed roofs installed. Columbus would then pass these jobs down to smaller contractors like Jose. He only had three employees: himself, me, and one other guy.

To maximize his earnings, Jose took on as many jobs as possible. He would drive around and do about an eighth of a roof on one house, move to the next, do another piece, and then cycle back to finish the first one later. His logic was that once he started a job, no other contractor could take it.

It’s the same thing with women. The goal is to seal the deal as quickly as possible, regardless of where you are or what’s happening, and lock things in to prevent anyone else to beat you to the finish line or new obstacles or resistances to arise. The first time is rarely as mind-blowing or smooth as the second time anyway, but once you've crossed that boundary and threshold together, you can coordinate better logistics later.

For example, last year I hooked up with a girl on my office desk. It wasn't amazing, and I ended up with a bruised knee, but afterward, she was adamant about finding a comfortable place with a mattress and without the paranoia. So, we got a hotel for the next time. Another time with another woman, the first hookup was outside a club in my car, and for the second round, she came over to my house a week after for a much better experience.

I get what you are trying to say, but Jose's strategy could go to hell if he screws up the wrong house/overextends his company to the point of failure. Like Jose, OP Public indecency, indecent exposure, lewd conduct in a public place, disorderly conduct, and anything else that could happen indirectly. Go ahead and risk getting in trouble over some pvssy like a real man or just simply grow a pair and have sex at your house.