"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
First relationship at 21, having some road bumps and could use some insight. (long)
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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100% in a relationship. You must always have the ability to walk away. You
can't be in love in four months. Sounds more like infatuation to me. T
In other words: the guys who are the most insecure lose the chick and those
who are not affected by a loss have chicks following them. I don't know you,
but do what makes you happy more often (ex: playing a sport, etc). It sounds
like she likes to see you get jealous. She might be more insecure than you
think she is.