"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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first real sarging tour after 6 month of theory

grenzenlos

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hello guys!

this is my first post on this board. about half a year ago being compleatly on the ground after my girlfriend dumped me I found the pu-community. and that really changed my life. I feel so great now. I look forward to every new day with joy. thats why I want to thank you all for the advice you give here. and special thanks to sapiens and pook whose posts I admire most.

but lets start with the report now:

at friday night I went to a disco with my wing. It had been a horrible day for me but after listening to some high energy music and some dancing in my living room I was in a quiet good state again. after entering the venue we went first to the bar and ordered drinks. next to us were two girls. I opened them:

grenzenlos: are you two shy or what?
hb: erm...no why do you think that?
g: I was standing there and talking to my friend for about five minutes and you didn't even come over to say hi.
hb: that could also have had other reasons.

I didn't know how to continue then so I ejected and went to the dancfloor. how would you have continued the conversation?

on the dancfloor I approached the first cute girl I saw. It was a two set again. my wing was somwhere else. I took her hand and put it up with the rythm (put your hand up in the air...yeah!). I danced with her for a few minutes and escalated kino. when I put one of my legs between hers it was too much for her. it would certainly have been bether if a wing would have danced with the second girl. I left the floor and met my wing again.

standing at the side of the dancfloor another two set of girls approached us because my wing knew one of them allready. they were both quiet hot. I was wearing a stylish hat this evening. one of the girls graped it and put it on.

g: hey! thats not for free!

I hold my cheek to her and gesutred to it. she kissed it. (by the way thats a great routine. did this several times that evening)

then I took my hat back. she took it a second time and I hold my other cheek and she kissed it again. I hoped she would take it a third time but she didn't. instead she started dancing with her friend very close. my wing and I mirrored them. they took the challange and started kissing.

g: ok. you've won. that was really cool.

I took the hb who took my hat before:

g: from one to ten what would you say how well do you kiss?
hb: I can't answer that but maybe you can -> kiss close

we kissed for a minute befor the other hb interrupted us. my wing should have graped the other hb but he didn't had the balls to do it. i think that it will take a bit time to train him.

hb: and what do you think?
g: I'd say that was a seven.
hb: what! only seven?

I started to talk about kissing. I wanted her to imagine that that wasn't all she could experience with me but I guess I f%$ed it up cause I lost attraction. guess I should have isolated her directly after the kc (what! only seven? - yes but let's go over there and sit down. then you can proove that you are worth a ten.) but I guess the other hb would have ****blocked. we lost the set. I didn't eaven got her number.

I approached some more sets this evening and really had a lot of fun but there where no more closes.

What was positiv:
-did a lot of approaches, my AA was quiet low
-got a kiss close
-had a lot of fun
-drunk no alcohol

What was negativ:
-didn't get any numbers
-ejectet too early from some sets because I ran out of things to say

I have to apologize for my english. I am not a native speaker so please don't be too hard with me.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Gute Arbeit, für das erste Mal war ein KC doch super :up:

So you studied pook and talk about finding the PU-Community?^^ That doesn't fit together for me...
 
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grenzenlos said:
hello guys!

this is my first post on this board. about half a year ago being compleatly on the ground after my girlfriend dumped me I found the pu-community. and that really changed my life. I feel so great now. I look forward to every new day with joy. thats why I want to thank you all for the advice you give here. and special thanks to sapiens and pook whose posts I admire most.

but lets start with the report now:

at friday night I went to a disco with my wing. It had been a horrible day for me but after listening to some high energy music and some dancing in my living room I was in a quiet good state again. after entering the venue we went first to the bar and ordered drinks. next to us were two girls. I opened them:

grenzenlos: are you two shy or what?
hb: erm...no why do you think that?
g: I was standing there and talking to my friend for about five minutes and you didn't even come over to say hi.
hb: that could also have had other reasons.


I didn't know how to continue then so I ejected and went to the dancfloor. how would you have continued the conversation?
Why did you eject?? That was a great opener, I'm going to use it.

I would have said something like:

"what possible reason could you have for not talking to a stud like me?"
 
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