Salines tips for a first date.
1)One of the best lines I have ever heard here is "Agree and amplify"
Her "I love the ocean"
You " I love the ocean too. A ferry ride to fire island on a warm night is one of my favorite life experiences."
2) Eyes, eyes, eyes.-
Say things with your eyes and less with your mouth. Constantly tell her you want to do naughty things to her with your eyes. Bedroom eyes.
Triangle and sticky eyes. Look into her eyes. Then look at her mouth. Then her neck or ears. Then back at her eyes. You can do it subtlety or overtly. If she asks you can tell her "nothing" or you can tell her exactly what you are doing. Depends on the vibe. " I was looking at all the places I am going to kiss you later"
Sticky eyes is a slow movement of your eyes during the look. Or, when you are leaving her for any reason. Look into her eyes. Tell her" Stay here I will be right back. Hold the gaze as you take your first steps away through the corner of your eyes till you turn your head. Its tough to type out but it is pure sex.
React to her stories with your eyes. Sad story sad eyes. Interesting (never is) look like interest in your eyes. When you smile smile with your eyes to.
3) Lead! - Never ask if she wants anything. Prepare and predict.
"Here you look cold TAKE my sweatshirt" NEVER "Do you want my sweatshirt"
"Lets go get some food now I am hungry." NEVER "Are you hungry do you want to eat now.
"Stay here. Ill be right back"
"I want you to kiss me now"
"Lets go I am taking you somewhere else"
You can add softeners if you want.
"Sweetheart. Hold this for a sec."
"Put down your phone now doll. It can wait. I want you to tell me about..."
" Leave the tip and dont jip" "Ill buy dessert"
I dont make them pay. But you should absolutely make them contribute.
80 -20
4) You already made out with this chick so the rules around here of short dates is out the window. (I never believed in that anyway.)
Try and take her to three different locations.
Most girls have a 3 date rule about physical contact stuff. So... give her three dates. In her subconscious it will feel like she "knows" you. This will give her comfort. She already decided she will sleep with you. Now, its all about when. You can speed that up with the three locations trick. This is a 90 percent success rate for me.
Wine bar, dinner, beach.
Action date, drinks, quite place.
Coffee, dessert item, quite place.
You get the idea.
5) Agree 80 percent of the time. Disagree 20 percent.
6) Compliment sparingly. Its white noise they hear all the time and it seems "try hard" If you must compliment never compliment her beauty. Compliment things and use the words "I appreciate" or to that effect. Also, you can be bolder than you think.
I like the way they dress fits your figure. Shows off your assets. Cant wait to meet them later.
You smell good. I appreciate you wore your special scent just for me. Lets hope it works.
You can even neg compliment. I told TG. "You put on to much perfume. Lets hope I get used to it." She told me...."I hope so"
However....If you ever get physical with her, now you can compliment her looks. If you make her feel more secure when she is intimate with you she will go wild with you.
"OMG. Your breasts are the more perfect than I could have designed."
"You are a great kisser. Its making me so hard for you. Im could tare your clothes off right here.
P.S If kissing in public. Stick your finger on the inside of her pant line near her hip bone and pull her into you. Skin to skin. No one can see and she knows that. This little gesture will get the juices flowing. I have had very good feedback on this move.
7) Mystery.
Pick certain questions that you refuse to answer.
Go quiet once in a while and get lost in thought. Dont be weird just mysterious.
Tell her you just thought of a nickname for her. Smile and chuckle and dont tell her what it is.
Shrug at her questions once in a while and smirk.
Remember. The best line you can hear. "Who are you!?" 'I want to know more about you"
8) And lIke the above poster said. HAve fun. On your own terms. Welcome her company into your date.
I got to run. Ill post more later.
