First real argument of the relationship

[Supremo]

Today my girlfriend and I got in an argument for the first time in our three months of going out.

Basically the premise is she feels like I wasn't totally truthful about a situation because other people were saying a different story. From the start she misunderstood what actually happened, so when I corrected her she thought I had intentional lied. She said that if she wouldn't have heard this other story, regardless if it was true, then she would've gone on "with her head up her ass" about the whole issue.

We never got to the point of "we can't be together" but it was really weird for the rest of the day together...

Any advice on mending these bumps in the relationship?
Thanks a lot guys

 

[KontrollerX]

Tell her that what other people say should not matter.

For you to keep her as your girlfriend she must trust you or she can go elsewhere.

The advice I have just given you may be a tough pill to swallow but you have to keep your respect in a relationship or all is lost.

 

[Supremo]

Tell her that what other people say should not matter.

My bad man I guess I have a problem with getting the whole story out... check out the edited first post. Thanks for the quick reply.

 

[KontrollerX]

Hmmm, I re-read it now that you've edited it and it seems my original advice still applies.

Though I couldn't quite understand the edit part that states...

"She said that if she wouldn't have heard this other story, regardless if it was true, then she would've gone on "with her head up her ass" about the whole issue."

I think this part means that she is glad to have heard the other side of the story or would of went on blindly believing your side hence the head up her ass comment but correct me if I'm wrong?

Anyway if this is the case you need to have a talk with her that she has to trust you over other people if you two are going to remain in a relationship together because thats how relationship's...healthy relationships are supposed to work.

They are based on mutual respect and trust.

A relationship has to be you and your girl against the world in order to survive and I mean that in the sense that no external forces should be allowed to break you both up.

As in anything that is hearsay he said she said garbage should be thrown out.

Only verifiable proof such as tape recordings or stuff like one of you seeing the other do something awful to your relationship in person should be grounds for breaking up not some gossip mongering from busy body bastards.

 

[Axcell]

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It's posts like this that make me wonder what this forum is turning into. If you do not have any advice to offer Supremo, you shouldn't have posted.
Anyway, Kontroller seems to have answered your question quite throughly; I doubt I can add anything. However, check your inbox, I messaged you something personal which I feel might help you out.