"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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First question from OLD when you had last time sxx?

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First question from OLD when you had last time sxx?
I said a while ago like half year or so. Basically the truth.
The next one is how many sxx partners did I have before.
Everything trough phone.
What gives?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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In my experience, this means she wants someone who is sexually experienced who other girls want and she may or may not also want to be treated literally as a filthy wh0re. Girls seem to me to be turned on in of itself by the more girls they think you've fvcked and the more popular they think you are.

I haven't experienced it, but I would guess it could also mean she's gonna lead this to stds to make sure she doesn't catch any.
 
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OsirisII said:
First question from OLD when you had last time sxx?
I said a while ago like half year or so. Basically the truth.
The next one is how many sxx partners did I have before.
Everything trough phone.
What gives?
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Be a mystery. Giving away all your secretes defeates challenge. She may be asking you directly but what she really wants is a guy who she has to crack. These personal questions right off the hop are too personal and you shouldn't make it too easy for her.

"When was the last time you had sex?"
Answers " i don't kiss and tell."

"How many partners have you had?"
Answer " might i ask you the same question ? "
She is filtering you out by your answers. Too keep yourself interesting don't give it up too easily
 
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OsirisII said:
First question from OLD when you had last time sxx?
I said a while ago like half year or so. Basically the truth.
The next one is how many sxx partners did I have before.
Everything trough phone.
What gives?
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"i'm fvcking a girl right now, she's really nice for letting me text during"
 
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dude99 said:
Be a mystery. Giving away all your secretes defeates challenge. She may be asking you directly but what she really wants is a guy who she has to crack. These personal questions right off the hop are too personal and you shouldn't make it too easy for her.

"When was the last time you had sex?"
Answers " i don't kiss and tell."

"How many partners have you had?"
Answer " might i ask you the same question ? "
She is filtering you out by your answers. Too keep yourself interesting don't give it up too easily
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^This.

I learned the hard way, but now this is how I answer these questions. You can also use the "I don't kiss and tell" answer if she asks when the last time you went on a date was or how many dates have you had from Tinder etc
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Does that include solo sex?
 
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"I haven't finished yet, but ask me again in 5 minutes."
"never"
"do you mean my own species? "
"I'll ask her... She says 45 minutes."
"I'll check the time stamp on the video"
 
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dude99 said:
Be a mystery. Giving away all your secretes defeates challenge. She may be asking you directly but what she really wants is a guy who she has to crack. These personal questions right off the hop are too personal and you shouldn't make it too easy for her.

"When was the last time you had sex?"
Answers " i don't kiss and tell."

"How many partners have you had?"
Answer " might i ask you the same question ? "
She is filtering you out by your answers. Too keep yourself interesting don't give it up too easily
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Is there another way to say or rephrase "i dont kiss and tell"?

Sounds too fruity
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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ChangePages said:
Is there another way to say or rephrase "i dont kiss and tell"?

Sounds too fruity
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You don't have to use my exact suggestions, they were just that. Suggestions.

"When was the last time you had sex?"
Answer " curious one aren't you."
 
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When you are asked a question you do not want to answer then answer the question with a question. If you can be funny about it the better.

Q: "When was the last time you had sex?"
A: "What do you mean by 'sex', straight up coitis, or crazy kinky sex?"

Q: "How many partners have you had?"
A: "Does an 'orgy' count as one, or should I just make an estimate of the total number?"
 
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