"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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First Post Question: George of Grey's Anatomy

TheMaestro87

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This is my first post on this forum, and I'd like to start out by thanking everyone here. I started reading this forum over winter break and already have a new girlfriend with many other options. I was already outgoing and funny, I just didn't know how to use it to my advantage. On the gf point, I watch Grey's Anatomy with her and her roommates weekly (sounds like I'm whipped, I know, but it's actually a good show).

On to the question... for those of you who watch the show, you'll know George and how he acts and whatnot. For some reason, this character, who's about the biggest blundering pvss on the planet, get quite a few chicks and hooks up with multiple women on the show. He's not funny, charming or confident. My gf says it's because he has feelings and whatnot that attract women, but from what I can tell (more and more as I watch the show) is that he is exactly the kind of guy girls like to be friends with but not anything more.

Someone explain what I'm missing...

Also, I know what AFC means or refers to but I don't know what AFC stands for...

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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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You know why George gets the girls? Because it's a TV show. Grey's anatomy is a way for women to utilize propaganda. They know that if a man watches the show with his gal, she's gonna say "it's because he has feelings and whatnot that attract women". She's trying to get you into the "nice guy" mode (sub-consciously or consciously- doesn't matter). Don't buy that BS and frankly, what the hell are you doing watching Grey's Anatomy with a group of women. Are you TRYING to be their emotional tampon?

BTW AFC is an acronym for Average Frustrated Chump
 

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TV shows and films 99% of time are bull****
 

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I know it's a TV show but I mean, a lot of other TV show characters seem to have SOME DJ qualities... I mean, the guy Alex on Grey's Anatomy is an *******, but it's so easy to see why he got some of the girls (I've seen him land one, don't remember her name). I'm not looking to George for advice, and I've learned enough from this forum to not believe my gf when she says it's because he's nice. That's why I asked you guys :-D
 

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Well, he's a doctor on the show, and he looks like Patrick Dempsey. I'm pretty sure the same guy in real life would still get girls.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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why don't you... go watch james bond with your girls and ask them why women fall for him?

or how about vince vaughn(i think that's his name) from wedding crashers and ask them why women fall for the wedding crashers.
 

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Gotta love Wedding Crashers, not sure if that was sarcasm from Kev. Anyways, isn't Dempsy the other doctor? Maybe I have the names wrong but George is "O'Malley" or something. The intern...
 

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ok what do i know, i don't watch that shyt.
 

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what i was trying to say is, the OP was getting opinions from a TV show about how an AFC(i think i don't watch greys anatomy) seems to get girls. i'm just saying to look outside the box, if you wanted to get opinions from the screen, there are ENDLESS opinions, and DJs are everywhere too, like james bond and vince vaughn
 

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And by the way, in real life "George" does NOT get "the girls" because he is homosexual.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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G-Theory said:
You know why George gets the girls? Because it's a TV show.
What? You mean its not real? Just a from of entertainment?


But what about action shows like the A-Team? Surely they are not the male version of shows like "Days of Our Lives" and "As the World Turneth".

What happened in the A-Team was REAL! And I don't believe anything to the contrary!

Grey's anatomy is a way for women to utilize propaganda.
I thought the show was geared towards the females. Don't they like to see chick flicks?

Are you TRYING to be their emotional tampon?
Many have unknowingly fallen into this trap. Its a one way trip to hell. And back if you snap out of it.
 

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Trust me, I'm not trying to learn anything from that guy. He's the exact opposite of what attracts girls. I'm in college and it may be because so many girls watch Grey's Anatomy, but a lot of guys watch it too. Just thought something was wrong there, lol.
 

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Dude, it's a SCRIPTED SHOW.

DJ qualities? Huh? The producers have them react anyway they want.......

It's all pre-determined and worked out to make the story 'dramatic.'

Don't follow how these people act.
 

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Scought said:
Dude, it's a SCRIPTED SHOW.
Bull5hit. Its all real. They go around with cameras in the hospital and in people's houses and they film stuff.

It's all based on reality and if it happens in the show chances are it happens in real life.

Its not scripted like the movies.

It's all pre-determined and worked out to make the story 'dramatic.'

Don't follow how these people act.
Pfft. A real fan knows that if you do exactly what the characters do you will get the same results.

Its like chanting "abracadabra" and then you pull a rabbit out of the hat.

If the magician can say it.. so can you. Just get a hat and say "abracadabra" and reach in. You will find a rabbit appeared inside.


Now if you were to follow what the show says you get the same result as the people on tv. Just like George on Grey's Anatomy, and just like with your hat.
 
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