"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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First Party

Triple T

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Well neways, my cousin just called me up and invited me to a party. First one i've been to in High school so I don't really know what to expect.

Anything I should avoid? or be aware of?
I'm just a little cautious because lately there have been a couple of bad parties in the news. (some poor kid got a hachet to the head)

Of course there are gonna be drinks, i'm fine with that...I've drank before. But anything else I should know about? Just a little nervous, I don't know what to expect :confused:

maybe i'll get laid :D
 
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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SinJester

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Go out and have fun. Stop worrying. Don't drink TOO much or you might do something you regret. Meet some new people, you might end up hookin up with a chick, talk to everyone you can.

The only thing I would warn you about it watch out who you hook up with. My first kiss was when I was blind drunk and was with a pretty ugly chick. I regret that. It snowballed into more hookups with hot chicks but it would be better if that first one wasn't there. So just watch your standards, which is kind of hard to do if you are too pissed.

Also don't get into any fight. Fairly simple.

Despite what I've said most parties go smoothly. They are meant to be fun, and they are. Good luck ;)
 

Craig Reeves

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Triple T said:
Well neways, my cousin just called me up and invited me to a party. First one i've been to in High school so I don't really know what to expect.

Anything I should avoid? or be aware of?
I'm just a little cautious because lately there have been a couple of bad parties in the news. (some poor kid got a hachet to the head)

Of course there are gonna be drinks, i'm fine with that...I've drank before. But anything else I should know about? Just a little nervous, I don't know what to expect :confused:

maybe i'll get laid :D
First of all NEVER go to a party with the intention of sleeping with ANYONE. That is NOT what Alpha males are all about. Plus it's very dangerous.

Avoid getting into with anyone and avoid talking to girls who are overly drunk from alchohol.
 

Triple T

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Craig Reeves said:
First of all NEVER go to a party with the intention of sleeping with ANYONE. That is NOT what Alpha males are all about. Plus it's very dangerous.

Avoid getting into with anyone and avoid talking to girls who are overly drunk from alchohol.
lol yea i know i know.

alright, well only thing is I probally won't know much of these ppl. But we'll see how it goes. :cool:
 
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