hello guys i've been watching this forum for quite some time now so decided to ask you guys for some advice.
i got fed up with a girl being indecisive so i decided i'm gonna try NC her . if she wouldn't respond so be it.
so i met this cute redhead when i was invited for some drinks after work we immediately hit it off and she asks for my number after i said i was leaving for other plans after 1 hour. she text me right after i leave and keeps flooding me the next days.
after 3 days she is in the café we met and tells me to come after work so i did we had alot of fun doing kino flirting and teasing. at some point we where talking about sushi and she keeps braggin how good she can make sushi , i call her out on it and tell her too prove it at my place next week, she agrees.
she comes over ... she looks sexy and damn she knows her way around the kitchen . we have a delicous dinner , have some drinks make alot of jokes and she keeps having this cheecky grin on her face. we sit in the coach and start making out , my hands all over her body i decide to try and push to see where i can go. she stops me and says its too soon , right after this she says "please don't let this be Awkward" i laugh it off and keep making some fun of her and we go back too fun conversations . she keeps touching me and sits so close she might aswell sit on my lap. after a short time i end the date because i had to work early. after she leaves i noticed she "forgot" some stuff of her in my house.
next 2 saturdays she cancels a date the same day and makes up an excuse. next week she ask me if i wanna go on a yolo vacacion with her for 6 days (wtf?!?) .i'm pretty confused at this point but try to play it cool and don't act bothered. suddently then she tells me she isn't ready for a relation yet and wants too start as good friends...
decide here that i was gonna try NC sinse i read so much positive about it on this forum and i
was fed up with this mixed signals game.
its been 3 days and today she texted me to have drinks on thursday after work. half a day later she tells me "and no i'm not just asking this to get my stuff back i wanna spend time with you" (she knew because i told her she forgot) but why is she even implying this?
i could really use some advice on what to do now
do i keep NC or do i break it tomorrow and give her very little?
if i break it do i just say i'm too busy or do i call her out and tell her i'm not wasting my time in her as long as she doesn't know what she wants herself and find me whenever she figures it out?
not the best in reading/typing english but i appreciate every reply
i got fed up with a girl being indecisive so i decided i'm gonna try NC her . if she wouldn't respond so be it.
so i met this cute redhead when i was invited for some drinks after work we immediately hit it off and she asks for my number after i said i was leaving for other plans after 1 hour. she text me right after i leave and keeps flooding me the next days.
after 3 days she is in the café we met and tells me to come after work so i did we had alot of fun doing kino flirting and teasing. at some point we where talking about sushi and she keeps braggin how good she can make sushi , i call her out on it and tell her too prove it at my place next week, she agrees.
she comes over ... she looks sexy and damn she knows her way around the kitchen . we have a delicous dinner , have some drinks make alot of jokes and she keeps having this cheecky grin on her face. we sit in the coach and start making out , my hands all over her body i decide to try and push to see where i can go. she stops me and says its too soon , right after this she says "please don't let this be Awkward" i laugh it off and keep making some fun of her and we go back too fun conversations . she keeps touching me and sits so close she might aswell sit on my lap. after a short time i end the date because i had to work early. after she leaves i noticed she "forgot" some stuff of her in my house.
next 2 saturdays she cancels a date the same day and makes up an excuse. next week she ask me if i wanna go on a yolo vacacion with her for 6 days (wtf?!?) .i'm pretty confused at this point but try to play it cool and don't act bothered. suddently then she tells me she isn't ready for a relation yet and wants too start as good friends...
decide here that i was gonna try NC sinse i read so much positive about it on this forum and i
was fed up with this mixed signals game.
its been 3 days and today she texted me to have drinks on thursday after work. half a day later she tells me "and no i'm not just asking this to get my stuff back i wanna spend time with you" (she knew because i told her she forgot) but why is she even implying this?
i could really use some advice on what to do now
do i keep NC or do i break it tomorrow and give her very little?
if i break it do i just say i'm too busy or do i call her out and tell her i'm not wasting my time in her as long as she doesn't know what she wants herself and find me whenever she figures it out?
not the best in reading/typing english but i appreciate every reply
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