"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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First Mistake... Last Mistake?

randomshinichi

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I just came back from dinner. I saw four 7-8/10 women (based on looks) in the cafe I was going to order dinner from. As the guy behind the counter asked me a question, one of them translated for me, and so I managed to get into their conversation somehow.

But somehow, it seemed like I left my balls at home. I couldn't think of anything. I was just dumbstruck. I couldn't think of anything except for normal questions (name, where they came from - oh yes, the two hottest were Russians). After obtaining this info, I extracted myself from their conversation/company, and ate my dinner feeling very chumpish all the while.

When I left, I put on some Megadeth on my headphones. And no matter how loud I cranked up Five Magics, I still felt incredibly chumpish.

This was my first missed opportunity of the year. Hopefully, as Dave sings, it will be my last mistake.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Overcomer9

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It's okay man. Sometimes it happens...were you thinking hard about saying the "right" thing and it held you back? Sometimes that happens.

I'm sure the next time around you will give a better effort given what happened. Don't worry about saying the wrong thing, just go with the flow and "Take no Prisoners" heheh
 

WhitePimp

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Just remember that feeling of how sh!tty it is to blow a good opportunity because of wimpiness and the next time you feel like you're going to wuss out...fight that feeling at all costs and man up. Just shrug this one off and ACT next time. That was my New Years resolution...forget all this fear BS and just go for what I want. I've been rejected a few times already but I don't feel bad about it because there's no regret, I ACTED. Now may your past rust in peace...:p
 
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