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[Milfhunter95]

There is a milf that I met when I started my first job (restaurant) at age 16. I've low key wanted to finesse since then (21 going on 22 now) but I didn't start making things obvious until I was 20.

One night she was at the bar in my job, having a drink. We were talking and I was like "gee, I can't wait till I turn 21 next month" and she asked when my birthday was and I told her and added "Why? You taking me out for a shot?" In a joking manner. But she responded and said "we could do that"

Unfortunately, that was the last time i saw her because I got fired the following week.

February of this year, I was re-hired. I didn't see her until march and we talked and I told her "hey I'm still waiting for my birthday shots" we both laughed and she asked if I could some there and then. I was at work so I couldn't and that was that.

She came back a few weeks later and i made it my goal to get her number to make plans for these "birthday shots".

As she's walking out, I went to open the door for her and she gives me a hug telling me it's always good to see me and all that. I close the door behind us and start walking with her towards he car and the conversation went like this (unfortunately my voice got a little shaky):

Me: So what's up? You know I've been waiting on those shots for quite some time now

Milf: Oh, have you? Well what are you gonna do about it?

Me: idk you tell me what the plan is

Milf: I don't have any plans (starts blushing and smiling)

Me: well let's make some

Milf: okay, we could do that

Me: but how are we supposed to do that? I barely see you nowadays and I don't have any way to get in contact with you.

Milf: idk

Me: *pulls out my phone, opens the keypad and hand her the phone* well let's make plans then

milf: *puts number in* text me whenever you want to go out saying "hey ms. Milf it's "milfhunter95" and I want go take shots

Me: sounds goods. I'll probably Text you Friday

Then, we both say goodbye. As I had told her, I texted her friday, literally saying what she told me to say. No response. Later that evening, I decided to go to the bar. And who do I see? Ms. Milf lol. I quietly left before she saw me, cause I felt awkward.

This past monday, she was at my job. Usually I would go up to her and have a conversation with her, but this time i just waived at her as I walked by (still feeling awkward). As she was leaving she stopped to give me a hug and tell me it's always good seeing me. Then she asked me:

Milf:hey did you text me a few weeks ago?

Me: I did, actually

Milf: I'm sorry I didn't respond. I just wasn't sure who it was (although I told her who it was)

Me: haha it's all good, no worries.

Milf: text me again sometime so we could go out. I'll come back to see you soon

Now my questions are:

Should I even bother texting her again?

Is it clear what my actual intentions with her are?

If I'm doing things wrong, let me know and how I can fix it. Please and thank you

 

[dude99]

There is a milf that I met when I started my first job (restaurant) at age 16. I've low key wanted to finesse since then (21 going on 22 now) but I didn't start making things obvious until I was 20.

One night she was at the bar in my job, having a drink. We were talking and I was like "gee, I can't wait till I turn 21 next month" and she asked when my birthday was and I told her and added "Why? You taking me out for a shot?" In a joking manner. But she responded and said "we could do that"

Unfortunately, that was the last time i saw her because I got fired the following week.

February of this year, I was re-hired. I didn't see her until march and we talked and I told her "hey I'm still waiting for my birthday shots" we both laughed and she asked if I could some there and then. I was at work so I couldn't and that was that.

She came back a few weeks later and i made it my goal to get her number to make plans for these "birthday shots".

As she's walking out, I went to open the door for her and she gives me a hug telling me it's always good to see me and all that. I close the door behind us and start walking with her towards he car and the conversation went like this (unfortunately my voice got a little shaky):

Me: So what's up? You know I've been waiting on those shots for quite some time now

Milf: Oh, have you? Well what are you gonna do about it?

Me: idk you tell me what the plan is

Milf: I don't have any plans (starts blushing and smiling)

Me: well let's make some

Milf: okay, we could do that

Me: but how are we supposed to do that? I barely see you nowadays and I don't have any way to get in contact with you.

Milf: idk

Me: *pulls out my phone, opens the keypad and hand her the phone* well let's make plans then

milf: *puts number in* text me whenever you want to go out saying "hey ms. Milf it's "milfhunter95" and I want go take shots

Me: sounds goods. I'll probably Text you Friday

Then, we both say goodbye. As I had told her, I texted her friday, literally saying what she told me to say. No response. Later that evening, I decided to go to the bar. And who do I see? Ms. Milf lol. I quietly left before she saw me, cause I felt awkward.

This past monday, she was at my job. Usually I would go up to her and have a conversation with her, but this time i just waived at her as I walked by (still feeling awkward). As she was leaving she stopped to give me a hug and tell me it's always good seeing me. Then she asked me:

Milf:hey did you text me a few weeks ago?

Me: I did, actually

Milf: I'm sorry I didn't respond. I just wasn't sure who it was (although I told her who it was)

Me: haha it's all good, no worries.

Milf: text me again sometime so we could go out. I'll come back to see you soon

Now my questions are:

Should I even bother texting her again?

Is it clear what my actual intentions with her are?

If I'm doing things wrong, let me know and how I can fix it. Please and thank you

You told her who you were in the text and she pretended she didn't know who you were.

Sounds to me like she likes the attention she is getting from you ( ego boost becausea younger guy is flirting with her ) but she doesn't want to take things past s flirting stage.

I wouldn't text her anymore just verbally say to her (because you will see her again) you have my number. You let me know when you want to take me out for those drinks.

Then ghost. Initiate no more contact other than smiling and nodding and hello. Nothing else.

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

I get the feeling that you're just being too awkward of a person. Like yeah she knows you want her, but it doesn't seem like you are actually making any PHYSICAL moves towards her. Maybe you should.

 

[Milfhunter95]

I get the feeling that you're just being too awkward of a person. Like yeah she knows you want her, but it doesn't seem like you are actually making any PHYSICAL moves towards her. Maybe you should.

Well I can't make physical moves towards her at my job, which is why I'm trying to make plans with her