noviceplaya
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I have read all the forums but none go to this so can somebody please help me.I wanna know wat to say when ufirst approach a girl?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
First lines
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
TomN
Don Juan
How about "Hello"
wheelin&dealin
Master Don Juan
Say "Mom... Mom... is that you, Mom? It's your son Larry"
Anyday approaches:
"Hi" (Use this anyway, to get attention for your next line)
or
"How are you?"
or
"What's your name"
or
"I have an intuision about you"
or
"Have I met you before" (cliche approach)
or
"You're in xyz school or come from yvx, aren't you" (If you've seen her before somewhere else)
Club approaches
"Hey"
+
"You look like you're here to make trouble" (My favorite
)
or
(credit Mr Fingers)
"Hi, I justed wanted to talk the most attractive woman in the room" <pause> "She's standing right over there, but since I'm so nervous I'm gonna practice on you first"
I could list up a million... and probobly so can you. You can probobly open with "Uggah buggaah boooh" too, if you say it right. The important thing, is that it's the comeback that is important...
"Hi" (Use this anyway, to get attention for your next line)
or
"How are you?"
or
"What's your name"
or
"I have an intuision about you"
or
"Have I met you before" (cliche approach)
or
"You're in xyz school or come from yvx, aren't you" (If you've seen her before somewhere else)
Club approaches
"Hey"
+
"You look like you're here to make trouble" (My favorite
)or
(credit Mr Fingers)
"Hi, I justed wanted to talk the most attractive woman in the room" <pause> "She's standing right over there, but since I'm so nervous I'm gonna practice on you first"
I could list up a million... and probobly so can you. You can probobly open with "Uggah buggaah boooh" too, if you say it right. The important thing, is that it's the comeback that is important...
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Shadow Dancer
Senior Don Juan
"Hi."
Something more risky?
"Hey, how's it goin'?"
You don't need to entertain the woman. You don't need to impress her with witty lines and catch phrases. Just talk to her for about 5 minutes, get her info, and be on your way.
It helps a lot if you can get yourself to approach her as if she is already a friend.
Something more risky?
"Hey, how's it goin'?"
You don't need to entertain the woman. You don't need to impress her with witty lines and catch phrases. Just talk to her for about 5 minutes, get her info, and be on your way.
It helps a lot if you can get yourself to approach her as if she is already a friend.