"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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First FR

LeviathanIYG

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Hey guys this is just a FR I’ve never done FR’s before this is my first one here goes…

9:00pm Saturday

It was a cold Saturday night I was planning on staying home watching Goodfellas for the 100th time. Then I get a phone call (Bring Bring Bring Bring!!) I lazily get up and answer the phone:

Me: Hey
My friend: Hey I just got invited to a party at (certain club) I’m on the VIP list you want in?
Me: You driving?
My friend: Yeh
Me: Im in
My friend: Ok you got half an hour
Me: Ok il have to hurry then bye

10:30pm Saturday

We get to the club and the line is longgg it’s reaching al the way up around the corner but we were on the VIP list (were very important people lol) so we didn’t have to wait.

Were walking down along the line of bored, anxious and annoyed people and I spot a HB8 with a HB6 friend:

Me: (to HB8) Long line ey
HB8: Yeh
Me: How long you been waiting
HB8: Like half an hour the line has barley moved
Me: I’ll make you a deal
HB8: Oh yeh (little smile) what kind of deal?
Me: I’ll get you to come in with us on the VIP list but then you have to do something for me (looked her dead in the eyes)
HB8: Oh and what’s that?
Me: You have to dance with my friend
(at that moment my friends mouth dropped open he doesn’t know a whole lot about women so I was trying to give him a head start)
HB8: (giggles) Yeh he’s cute ok deal
Me: (I shook her hand) let’s go

So we walk into the club with those two girls at our sides (instant social proof) HB8 stayed beside me my friend was a little embarrassed. As soon as we set foot into the club I knew it was going to be a good night it was just past 10:30 and the club was packed music was good and there were quite a few girls.

I grab the HB8 push her towards my friend she got the idea and reluctantly lead my friend to the dance floor.

10:40pm Saturday

Ok so I isolated my self now its time for the pickups (I think). I decide to walk up to the bar to buy a coke I bump in to an old FB:

Her: Heyyyyyyyyyyy (hugs me) I haven’t seen you in ages
Me: Yeh how you been babe
Her: I’m ok you
Me: Great whos your friend (HB7)
Her: (introduces us I got some EC with the friend but I wasnt interested)
Me: (to my ex FB) I have to go find my friend but well dance later ok (hahaha I wasn’t planning to dance with ehr)
Her: Ok promise
Me; Yeh yeh
Her: (kisses me on the cheek) ok bye

I walk up to the bar get my coke and go look for my friend I didn’t want to leave him alone to long with those girls.

11:00

Takes me a while to find him and he’s still dancing with the girls but he’s moved to the HB6 the HB8 is dancing with them but she’s kind of singled out.

I walk up and as soon as the HB8 see’s me she starts smiling I don’t know if it’s because she was into me already or because she was singled out and now she had someone to dance with. I grab her we start dancing:

(I get close to her ear and brush her hair away with my had in a semi sexual way and start talking)

Me: Having fun?
Her: Yep
Me: I didn’t get your name
Her: Lana you?
Me: _ _ _ _ were you from Lana?
Her: (she said and area close to mine) you?
Me: _ _ _ _ _ _ are you single?
Her: (a little shocked) that’s a lil fast?
Me: fast is good
Her: I broke up with my BF last week you?
Me: Yeh I broke up with my BF last night
Her: (laughs) nah come on do you have a GF?
Me: Maybe….lets go get a drink
Her: are you buying?

(Bang there’s the b*tch test)

Me: (I gave her a look like “do you think I’m an amateur? I know my sh*t b*tch” and women work on a whole different level they are very perceptive with body language, voice tone ect so she knew what I was saying with that look and she just looks down to the floor in a submissive way………PASSED THE TEST)

We get to the bar she buys her self a drink I get another coke and I lead her to the couches sit down:

Me: so what nationality are you?
Her: Spanish but I was born here how about you?
Me: I’m _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _
Her: Oh cool that’s hot
(she initiates heavier kino puts her hand on my leg. That’s my queue to isolate her)
Me: It’s loud in here let’s go outside
Her: I got to tell my friend
Me: Don’t worry she’s fine my friends with her
(grab her around the waist and start walking she cant help but go along. We get outside)
Her: Were are we going to go?
Me: The park across the road
Her: mmm that’s kind of dangerous
Me: Don’t worry I’ll protect you

(she doesn’t say anything but she keeps walking with me. We walk into the park and sit on this little wall. It’s freezing so I wrap my arm around her she seems to like it and gets up close)

Me: You cold
Her: OMG yes
(she was wearing a skirt so yeh she would have been freezing)
Me: (I bring my head close to hers lower and slow down my voice look at her in the eyes) Well lets get you warmed up then

(bang she leans in for a kiss………it went for a lil while and I started using my hands a lil more getting her turned on…… I have to isolate her more)

Me: It’s cold here were your car parked? ( I asked her earlier inside the club if she was driving)
Her: its close (stands up and starts walking towards her car and grabs my hand)

(On the way to the car we didn’t say anything she opens the door we get in the back seat and start kissing again she full getting into it. So I start to put my hands up under her shirt rubbing her back)

Her: OMG I’ve never done this before
Me: Kiss a guy
Her; No it’s just a lil fast
Me: I told you fast is good

................... You guys can use your imagination for the rest

That’s this weeks field report I’ll make one every week next week I’m going to record them with this MP3 player/recorder and I’m going to take some pictures. Oh and I’m not new to the game just to this site.

Cya guys
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Awesome work mate! That was a pretty sweet closing!

:cheer:

I've posted some FR myself, but it's only a few people that read them. Don't worry about the rest, they're all KBJ.
 

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Thanks Centaurion post some FR's I’ll read them. I think when I start doing audio approches more people will reply.

Are you from Australia to?
 

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great FR LeviathanIYG

i love how so many women use the same line "I broke up with my BF last week". yes yes.... how convenient ;)


Lost In Translation :D

**AUSTRALIAN STREET PIMP**

" stop being insecure " i hate that saying. it's a cop out for not having enough balls to confront a woman about what she is doing THAT IS WRONG or potentially damaging to a long term relationship. – Lost In Translation
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I've posted some FRs in the past. Don't have much going on now as I've been busy with exams.

I've been in Aus for 2 years now studying.
 

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Hahaha look at this 3 aussies i thought this site was all Americans.

Thanks Lost In Translation you are right ey they always say they just broke up with there BF.
 

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Good FR.

I like that you did not let barriers stand in your way. You always found a way to penetrate her barriers!

When a woman is into you, she loses a sense of her prioroties. Her emotions take over and logic flies out the window. There are a few lines that she used on you that if you didn't know how to answer them right, you would have been shut down cold and that is what happens to many guys. They don't know what to say when a woman throws a line such as: "that’s a lil fast?" "Are you buying?" "I got to tell my friend" "I broke up with my BF last week you?" "mmm that’s kind of dangerous" and the classic line "OMG I’ve never done this before".

You did right by spin her insecurities into something positive. You followed your agenda and not hers. You controlled the conversation and you steered it to the right direction. Then you took her away physically and isolated her. That is how is should be done.

Notice how her anti-slvt defence falls apart when you isolated her? She is not judged by her peers when she is alone and therefore she can be more sexual.

Notice how all of the sudden she doesn't care what happens to her friend anymore? lol women are such emotional self serving creatures that I am not surprised that alot of backstabbing happens among them.
 

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Originally posted by DJDamage
Good FR.

I like that you did not let barriers stand in your way. You always found a way to penetrate her barriers!

When a woman is into you, she loses a sense of her prioroties. Her emotions take over and logic flies out the window. There are a few lines that she used on you that if you didn't know how to answer them right, you would have been shut down cold and that is what happens to many guys. They don't know what to say when a woman throws a line such as: "that’s a lil fast?" "Are you buying?" "I got to tell my friend" "I broke up with my BF last week you?" "mmm that’s kind of dangerous" and the classic line "OMG I’ve never done this before".

You did right by spin her insecurities into something positive. You followed your agenda and not hers. You controlled the conversation and you steered it to the right direction. Then you took her away physically and isolated her. That is how is should be done.

Notice how her anti-slvt defence falls apart when you isolated her? She is not judged by her peers when she is alone and therefore she can be more sexual.

Notice how all of the sudden she doesn't care what happens to her friend anymore? lol women are such emotional self serving creatures that I am not surprised that alot of backstabbing happens among them.
Good post DJDamage, Yeh I never put the two together as soon as you separate them from their friends they become more sexual. Thanks for pointing that out man it's like the illusive obvious I don't notice it till it is pointed out.

I been looking through some posts here and I noticed there are a lot of noobish questions.........maybe the noobs should read FR's from experienced people to get more of an idea how talk and act around girls.

I say more people start writing FR's when I was learning about the game FR's were just about the most helpful thing next to actually getting out there and practicing.
 
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