First field report

[SoylentGreen]

GOOD NEWS:
I'm so proud, I feel as though I have lost my virginity!!
BAD NEWS:
I only went up to two girls (THIS time, but I did get a phone number) but heres the report:

Her words are in caps...
Approach one:
Hi how are you, what are you looking for?
FINE, JUST LOOKING FOR SHORTS
Do you work here?
YES
Cool, what kind of shorts you looking for?
WELL THIS IS A MENS STORE SO THEY'RE NOT FOR ME
Oh I see, anyway I didn't come in here to buy anything, I was just walking by and I thought you looked adorable so I thought I'd pop in to say hello. Are you from this city?
NO BUT I'VE BEEN HERE A YEAR NOW GETTING READY TO START COLLEGE
Oh so you are still in high school?
NO NO, I JUST HAVEN'T BEEN TO COLLEGE YET
Oh cool. Let me guess, you're talking Political Science
OH MY GOD WHY WOULD YOU SAY THAT?
Am I right?
WELL I'M TAKING SCIENCE BUT NOT POLITICAL SCIENCE
Oh so do you want to be a scientist?
NO I'M WORKING ON A SCIENCE CREDIT SO I CAN TAKE DENTISTRY
(I cover my mouth) Do you secretly judge people by their teeth?
HAHA, NO BUT I LIKE A GUY WITH GOOD TEETH
I have great teeth (I smile) don't you think? Listen I have to go but I'd like to see you again
I HAVE A BOYFRIEND THOUGH
Oh, ok. ( I gave up here, it WAS my first approach ever) well thats good. Its nice to have someone to spend your time with, especially in a new city. You are lucky to have found someone cool.
MEH. I GUESS. (as in: he's not THAT cool, at this point I realized I could have got her after all, but still ejected as I could feel my face turning beet red)
Well nice meeting you, good luck with the boyfriend...


Approach two:
Can I ask you a question?
SURE
Do girls prefer guys to hit on them directly or indirectly?
WELL, WHAT DO YOU MEAN? I GUESS DIRECT IS BETTER, WHY?
Direct eh?
FOR SURE
Ok, well hi there, I think you are unbelievably cute and I'd like to get to know you better. I've already walked by twice trying to get up the nerve to come and say hi
ARE YOU FROM THIS CITY?
No, I live outside it a bit.
WHEREABOUTS? (I told her where. She said she lived down the road, which was near a spot where I once went to play guitar so I dhv by saying the following):
Oh no way, when I first got my car (having a car is big in this city) I went near your place to sit by the falls (how peaceful) with my guitar (showing that I have musical talent) to practise. Its so nice playing guitar with the sound of the rushing water in the background and all the trees around, its so serene.
THAT DOES SOUND LIKE FUN, HEY WHATS YOUR NUMBER? (I almost crapped my pants, SHE asked ME for the number first)

Anyway...she ran to get a pen (note to self: start carrying a pen) and came back and thats when I realized we didn't even exchange names so I injected some kino:
---Oh my god (I grab her elbow) I didn't even get your name. She told me, I shook her hand, told her my name, then she wrote down her number and asked me to write down mine.



...And now here I am. I am now LESS afraid to approach and only now do I FULLY understand what I have read in all the pua books and online. I could have done alot better with both approaches and going forward I will work on this til I get it right and yes I know, next time I will approach waaay more women not just two..

Looking for feedback. Positive or negative. Don't hold back to spare my feelings...lol

 

[darkstarrr]

Oh I see, anyway I didn't come in here to buy anything, I was just walking by and I thought you looked adorable so I thought I'd pop in to say hello. Are you from this city?
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Anyway...she ran to get a pen (note to self: start carrying a pen) and came back and thats when I realized we didn't even exchange names so I injected some kino..............then she wrote down her number and asked me to write down mine.



...And now here I am. I am now LESS afraid to approach and only now do I FULLY understand what I have read in all the pua books and online. I could have done alot better with both approaches and going forward I will work on this til I get it right and yes I know, next time I will approach waaay more women not just two..

Looking for feedback. Positive or negative. Don't hold back to spare my feelings...lol

Part of you doing better and really feeling it to be as true as it is,,,, is due to the fact that you are able to not give a flying fuck.

You asked us for feedback and say to not worry about sparing your feelings. You're not caught up in seeming stoopid or feeling embarassed or too shy to approach these girls..you are building confidence - momentum - ..and the subconscious belief that you have value.

This in and of itself is part of the core of what is going on with you that is important above and beyond the actual situations you described.

For example, read the first post on this thread a couple of times.

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=115330

Keep it up. And now I am going to pass out because I am hammered drunk.

Good luck.

 

[SoylentGreen]

Hey thanks for that link darkstarr...respect!

I actually have been doing alot of the stuff listed there, but its nice to have it listed out like that.

I am getting way better at handling rejection and my game is improving daily. I have yet to go out for another field test due to being sick for the last two weeks but once I'm better I'll be back out there.

My goal is to take my two days off each week and do twenty approaches each day totalling forty approaches a week. I am looking at it in the context of: "lets see if I can get rejected"

In this regard I always win. If I get the number I win; If I get rejected I also win because my goal is to see if I can get rejected...I am kind of sick in the head maybe but I WANT to get rejected. I need to. To build up a resistance to it.

I think my approaches are going to be predominantly daytime approaches because I have no one to go to nightclubs with. So if anyone reading this has some great daygame tips feel free to share.

The ones I am going to use are:
1) Hello. blah, blah, blah
2) Do you believe in esp? pick a number
3) Do you like to be approached indirectly or directly?
4) Does this make me look fat?
5) Do I look like a drug dealer (or gay)??
....Depending on the situation.

I think I will be able to go out this weekend, I'm just waiting for my runny nose to clear up, I don't want to approach sounding all nasally...lol