"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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first days' style!

Jay-X

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hey what's up! i'd like to know how are you going to get dressed the first days of school! here's my schedule:

monday (1st day): black jeans and white collar shirt
tuesday: tight stonewashed blue jeans and white collar shirt
wednesday: stonewashed grey jeans and white collar shirt
thursday: baggy blue jeans and lonsdale polo
friday: like monday
saturday (in italy we go to school even on saturdays): stonewashed grey jeans and ultra tight black tank top

2nd week: i'll see:p

what about you guys? what do you think of my comin' routine?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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NEWBIE101

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I don't really have a schedule with what clothes I'm going to wear. I just pick them out the night before.
 
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Hmmmm.

Do you have more variety? All I see is the typical jeans and plain shirt. It sounds like a school uniform to me (if so might as well not read the rest of my post). I would at least have some pantalones cortos (hopefully ranging different colors). You could also go by a certain look you want. For instance, I have the athlete, the pimp, the thug, the goodie-too-shoo, the crazy sports fan, the beach-goer and some other casual, mix-'n-match clothes. You could also buy cheap, plain T-shirts (hopefully in a variety of colors) and write your favorite C+F lines on them with, preferably, a type of glue/gel. I wore the "TODAY IS MY BIRTHDAY custom shirt on Tuesday for my birthday and I got a positive reaction from 90% of the girls I saw that day. I was getting birthday hugs from HBs left and right. As a matter of fact, I started making small talk with this HB froshman (me=junior). Unfortunaetly, the bell rang before I could seal the deal with her. To my surprise, however, she came to my spot again at lunch the following day and we exchanged numbers. Just imagine if you, Jay-X, wore a "THEY'RE BIG, AIN'T THEY?" custom shirt that had an arrow pointing down to your...............shoes (of course it wont be that great of a C+F line if you dont wear intentionally large shoes).

The most important thing in your wardrobe should be variety.
 

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Personally i wouldnt wear a white collar shirt three days in a row, even with a suit (which i have to wear) and show a bit of individuallity, try to wear the things that other people will no be wearing.
 

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Stop arranging your clothing, jesus. Take it one day at a time, and put your energy into actually picking up the girls.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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NYC Dude

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All I know is that I'm going to wear something a step up from what I wore the last day of school. And where in Italy are you from (Jay-X)?
 

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An Italian asking (basically) Americans for fashion advice? Now, I really have seen it all :)
 

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Haha, just like a girl, setting up a schedule.

Change the first 3 days...don't wear anything, maybe except for pants, three days in a row.
 

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just some explanations:

1. i live in florence (yes, where gucci and many other stylists were born:-D)

2. i wouldn't ever wear anything 3 days in a row! i put my clothes off as soon as i come home, after school. i meant different shirts and different pants.

3. i wasn't askin' for advice, i wouldn't wear anything different than a white shirt the first days at a new school, just because it's what suits me the best. i was just wonderin' if i was wearin' what's usual or not:)

thx for answerin'!
 

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Mix up your colors a little. I pride myself on having good style, but when I went shopping yesterday with two very good friends they picked shirts out for me that they said would look good and mix up my wardrobe. Apparently I only wear a few different colors, which people notice.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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