"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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First day Of school (shopmore)

S-lemond

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wow it was like i was bombarder by the females today! they wouldnt let me even put ne game on them! they just came to me and hugged the junk outta me! i dont think there was a time a girl wasnt on me for more than 2mins. IT WAS A GREAT DAY although there were some guys that were jealous and tryed to put me down,( i was in a very fun mood) but i out whittied em and made the girls laugh still! HAHAHAHAH WATA GREAT DAY!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Its so funny! i remember my first day i was like hittin on all the chicks that walks by gettin there #, in class, wherever, whenever. And the guys would think am some kind of freakin male whor*, but i made alot of freinds and the funny thing is theres alot of haters so they would try to diss me but some of my new friends would start dissin them then some new haters would come in and diss me but the haters that previously diss me startin dissin the new haters. So make alot of friends! Even tho im a freshman i still know lot of juniors and seniors which helps alot.
 

S-lemond

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for real man, the reason that i am so happy, is because that haters ruined my freshman year! and the funny thing is, now that im in such a fun mood, everyone wants to be around me, even the haters!..LOL
 

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reading the responses i feel like i didnt do **** on the first day.

three numbers.

pshhhhh. lol
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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