"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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First Day of College

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Move-in day. Any tips you guys on what is up and whats to do? besides moving in and signing up for classes i mean. Make the rounds on the floors and get some #'s was my plan. Throw a little get together in my room that night of all my new friends.

btw, i don't have a roommate.

For those of you already been to college? Frosh get any love from the older hb's?

-micecubes

Northwestern... anyone else goin there?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Pretty much, go around and make friends. Also go around campus and find out what all there is to do around there. Free time is a killer mostly, if the place is boring or you don't know what is around.
 
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Congrats on Northwestern, great school man...I'm a few hours south of you at Wash U in St. Louis.


Anyways, just talk to everybody, go to all the orientation events, be as social as possible. After everyone is settled in your room, walk around the floor and introduce yourself to everyone...Don't worry, no one will find this unusual at all. At night head over to the frat houses and see if any parties are going on.
 
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Wash u? nice. i'm 2 hours from st.louis right now in missouri.

yeah, i think i've got a pretty good idea what's going on that first week i can get a good grasp of things.

thanks to the replies. this topic isn't dead yet though. i'm sure i'm not the only one here heading off for the first time.

lol btw, no one answered the question about frosh gettin lovin from the older hb's. i'm guessing the answer is "depends on how much of a dj you are"
 
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Originally posted by micecubes
lol btw, no one answered the question about frosh gettin lovin from the older hb's. i'm guessing the answer is "depends on how much of a dj you are"
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Pretty much. Though it IS easier to get some from an older chick than most people think, with or without moves.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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It's too easy to get with an older chick at college. Just run your game. And on move in day, just introduce yourself to EVERYBODY. I don't care if they don't look like they'll be in your clique or not. Just keep introducing youself and crack jokes. They'll probably have activities for you to do, so go to those. Don't worry about throwing a party the first night, it's better to get some guy friends first. Then go the first few frat parties and introduce yourself to everyone. $20 says you won't go home alone....
 
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