"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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first day of class, what angle do you if there are cuties?

john_1234

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never been in a class for some time and i'm now registered for a couple of college courses. back in my super afc days, i never talked to the attractive girls in my classes.
if there happens to be any cuties in my class, i definitely will interact as opposed to before. if there are cuties in your class, what angle is best to take? do you sit next to the cuties on the first day of class and start chatting right away? do you wait until several classes go by until you make some move? do you ignore her and show your personality through interactions w/ the professor/students to slowly engage her prior to hitting her up? i know there are many approaches, but i just want to know what worked best for you guys. thanks!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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saki

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Espis right just sit back and formulate a plan. See what feels right. Its definately better to be comfortable in your environment first. Just remember if she rejects you, you have to see her all the time in class
 

DJDamage

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Never pay any attention to one girl.

What you want to do is become that guy that everyone knows, talks to and like. Talk to everyone and know everyone no matter if they are hot or they are guys.

Those hot girls will see you as a more social guy and you won't have the problem of looking like you have an agenda.

Girls aren't stupid, they know if you never spoke to them before and you come up to them out of the blue and ask them about yesterday's assignment, that you are not being honest. They know what you want but you got to keep them guessing and let them know that you got other options and competition from other classmates and not to flatter themselves because you can always do better.

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Ive always noticed that the hot babes be sittin in the back and the popular guys be in the back to.

You can try sitting up all the way front, or you can be deciesive and sit right next to a girl.

I remember the first day of class it was an orientation class mostly were new to college but for me I already had 2 years under my belt. I felt real comfortable but everyone else seem scared and distant.

MAN, I was like.. whats wrong with this picture, it just a class.

YOU are the Don Juan, If you won't take advantage of the gold, someone else WILL. Which was suppose to be you, you have to give up your pride and do whatever to get that number.

One thing I learned, Freshman.. are Easy, like shooting fish in a barrell with a Shot Gun. Imagine that.. NOW GO
 

TxCowboy

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Simple ... walk right up to a hottie the first couple days, sit down next to her and start chatting it up ... eventually find if she's got the test files and notes ... very helpful I learned with the sorority girlies :D :D ... get some kooch and an "A+" on that test ... cant beat that man ...

- L8rs
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Wiesman44

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there's no trick to this dude. Just be friendly. Never hurts to be friendly. See what happens from there. And I agree, don't focus on one woman. Its best to not just focus on women though. Try to talk to a lot of people in the class. If possible, make yourself seem smart and confident. Asking lots of questions about class and being quiet always kills your chances w/ girls in class.
 

everywomanshero

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Actually, how you interact with the CLASS will largelky determine your sucess.

Make sure you're dressed cool. Wear a tennis hat turned kind of sideways with a cool hairstyle and clothes or whatever best fits your indentity, just throwing an example out there. Be extroverted as possible. Sit near the back but talk alot. Make sure you tell stories about being a guy who climbs buildings, goes rafting, and stuff like that. Just traveling alone isn't much of a DHV in this setting, you really need to tie it in with something like skydiving, scaling buildings, etc. Don't use martial arts or ultimate fighting, I tried that once and no one gave a crap really.

If you do this the teacher will constantely talk about you, the more you talk in class the better. Just make arrogant comments if you can't come up with anything better. This will generate enormous interest in you as the cool guy. Chances are during conversation they will tell you some cool party or place they are going. Get to class 10 minutes early so you can chat with them. Sit near the collest guys in the class, so you're associated with them right off the bat.
 
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