"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Desirable

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If you ask a girl for coffee or whatever, what distinguishes a date from just hanging out?

I have no problem with girls I just met but when you know someone a little bit better and you've spent time together with other friends, it seems as if you would actually have to say it's a date.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Whether something's a date or a get-together or whatever you name is, is determined by the words used. Don't call it a date EVER. It's just a naming convention for it, and when you avoid using the word 'date', it isn't as "charged" as using the word. By using the word 'date' you imply certain expectations.

In essence, hanging out, going on a date, meeting for a coffee all end up being the same. It's just a play of words. Don't make too much of a fuss over it.
 
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Sandhawk is right, it is just a name. I like to think of catching up in terms of whether I can have sex with the girl or not afterwards. If there is a chance of sex I run game, if not...well I still run game so the next time we meet I can have sex with her :D
 
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