"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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First dates with HS chicks, Alone or hangout thing with friends?

Walking Anomaly

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Hey Guys,
Hows life treating ya?

Jus a quick question, i dont know if its been gone over or what, but jus thought i'd i ask.

On a first date with a HS chick, do you think its better to go somewhere alone? or have both you and her bring some friends to make it like a social thing?

Let me know what you guys think. If it has been gone over before, I apologize.

Peace:)


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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Alexis Zorba

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Definetly alone. That way you can get to know her. Besides, it is a good way to test her interest level. If she agrees to go with you alone she is interested. If she doesn't and wants to bring some friends then she is not.

Hope I helped,

Alexis Zorba
 

triple_ultima

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Yeah bringing friends along on a date is only asking for trouble. At best, they will add nothing to the date. At worst, they will act as a total c0ckblock and completely mess with your game. I would definitely recommend doing it alone.
 

fbplayer06

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I agree.

I don't know why, but people act differently, like their true selves, when they're alone and don't have to impress their friends or whatever.

Besides, cliques are g4y...

Go alone.
 

LikRetsam

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In long years of dating, group dates are PURE trouble. From experience I say this. I stay away from them like the freaking plague.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

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