okay so my friend and i are going out on a afternoon date with thsee 2 chicks (we got 2 more to go out to a party with at night lol) on saturday. anyways were going out for some sushi - i love sushi lol - and so i was wondering...do we pay for this date or do we the girls pay their own way?
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
first date...
- Thread starter toddC
- Start date
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Damian
Senior Don Juan
It really doesn't matter. If they're self-respecting women, they'll pay your own bill, but if you want to look like the hotshot rich boy, pay the check.
The forums have gone over the date-payment issue probably a hundred times over, if not more. Next time do a search before you start a new thread.
-Damian
The forums have gone over the date-payment issue probably a hundred times over, if not more. Next time do a search before you start a new thread.
-Damian
ICaughtFire
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no, dont ever pay the pill on ur first date, it will b just a waste of money, if the girl is considerate and mature enough she will ask for individual pay instead
n wats with trying to look like rich boys when ur not? dating early at this stage is all about trying to hav fun n c if THEY can impress u and good enough 2 b ur girl, not the other way around n making them impressed
n wats with trying to look like rich boys when ur not? dating early at this stage is all about trying to hav fun n c if THEY can impress u and good enough 2 b ur girl, not the other way around n making them impressed
AC/DC
Master Don Juan
Quit being cheap bastards. If it's a straight up "date", then you always pay.
If it's a little kick-it thing, then she pays her own way.
If it's a little kick-it thing, then she pays her own way.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
AC/DC
Master Don Juan
Well AC/DC says: Quit being cheap bastards. If it's a straight up "date", then you always pay.
If it's a little kick-it thing, then she pays her own way.
The Bible is TIPS, not LAW. The Bible doesn't get you girls, correct behaviour and mannerisms get you girls. This is why you talk to me about stuff like that.
Distant Light
Master Don Juan
when were going on a so called "date" i don't call it a date to her. I put her in the frame as us just "hanging out". So far i haven't really met a girl that actually said i have to pay for her stuff.
What i've done so far are:
1. She pays for everything and i pay nothing
2. She pays for something and i will do something that would even it out
3. We pay for our own stuff
What i've done so far are:
1. She pays for everything and i pay nothing
2. She pays for something and i will do something that would even it out
3. We pay for our own stuff