"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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tjslove

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ok here is a question. I am about to be set up on a blind date and from what I gather from talking to her she sounds innocent. What is the best approach if I want to nail her the first night?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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DinoCassanova

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You probably won't be able to. Unless you establish phenomenal rapport with her and really put the time in. For instance, according to Mystery, it takes a woman I believe it was 6 to 7 hours of time spent together for her to want to start getting into the physical level. Unless she's a complete who-er who just wants to get action herself, but I doubt it. Alot of women , probably most it's safe to say, are not usually like that.
 

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yes its possible but you need to stay on your game. i have gotten it on the first date a few times. the thing is have a good time and act relaxed and not like you want to have sex. once you start thinking like that you are dead in the water. after the night you can make two good choices. 1 is end the date first. sy its getting late and you have something to do tommarow. if you do this she will think wow this guy is not just trying to f*ck me.most guys hang around hoping to get layed untill the awkward time when she has to end it. 2...if you are getting alot of kino all night, try to isolate her. invite her into your house to have a drink but say you have to get to bed not to late. if shes really inocent she is gonna probley put up LMR. in that case just get up turn on the lights and check your email. you might have to do this a couple of times. if you stay on your game all night it is very possible to get layed.
 
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