“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I met this chick a couple days ago (we talked for about 10 min) and got her number and now were goin out friday. This is gonna be my first date but im not too nervous. anyway were jus gonna go to a movie (i know its not the best choice) and we might get somethin to eat afterwards. My bros gotta take cause i don have a car yet, is this gonna have a negative affect (she has met him once before, hes really cool)? i have read the bible but any advice would be appreciated. thanks to all!!:cool:
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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have your bro keep his distance, and itll be cool. after all, this is a date between you and her. not you, her and him.

have fun!
 

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try to go on a double date, that way it won't your friend look like the "third-wheel." 2 days will hopefully be enough time for you bud to find a date. If your friend can't find a date then it's not going to seem like a date to her and you'll be started down the road to the dreaded friendzone. Trust me you don't want to go there. Hope this helps.
 

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well hes not gonna be goin on the date with us hes jus gonna be takin us where we need to be and then hes gonna be takin off!
 

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perfect then...
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Even though this doesn't relate to your question...

Double dates are NEVER good date ideas for the first couple of dates. It takes the emphasis off of you and HER. Thats something you do with friends, and it makes you two look like friends. Double dates are fine later on in a relationship, like after the 6th date or something.







Dude, if your going to see a movie, make it a comedy and make her laugh and make her talk alot about herself. Just make sure that date #02 is a FUN date! like bowling or something!
 

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Should i also take her out to eat or not? whats some other good ideas for after a movie?
 

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her place for the second date. get that kiss the first date! make a move sometime during the date
 
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