"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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First Date

JoesphBrown

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Hey guys so I went on a first date with a girl we went to a movie cause I worked so late, (that was on monday) we held hands and then made out when I dropped her off.

Anyways she seemed into making out I pulled away first and she tried to go back in for it again, however when I tried texting her a couple days later it was completely dry and when I asked her to hangout again she gave me the lamest excuse ever of "im tired"

Whats going on here and any advice how I should play this? Thanks
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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skinnyguy

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It seems like she has options and you don't. Don't worry about it too much. Talk to other girls and just have fun.
 

pyros

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this is how modern women act nowadays.

They can be into you one day, and the next day they don't give a fvck. It doesnt matter if you made out, held hands, or had sex.

Sad but true.
 

backseatjuan

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No shit! It's how modern women act, and she has options! No buddy, it's you! She was ready for sex right then and there, and you played hard to get, kinda telling her slow down ho, I'm not an easy boy.
 

stevo

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backseatjuan said:
No shit! kinda telling her slow down ho, I'm not an easy boy.
People looking at me like I've lost my mind when I burst out laughing after reading this.

No sheet OP.

If you've contacted her to hang and she gives excuse, no worries.

If she contacts you in the next 4days awesome if not hit her up again and ask her out, if she gives another excuse, forget about it. If she agrees you better Fcuk her
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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